Relationship in trouble...please help.

[peaceplease]

My boyfriend and I have a wonderful, God centered relationship. We pray, we go to church together, we talk about our faith together, share it with our children (we are both divorced) and were building a wonderful life together, planning to get married etc.

Well, he is very stressed right now and it's really taking a toll on him. He's not wanting to go to church, I don't think he's praying like he used to and he's pushing me away telling me he's "not ready". I feel that he's just afraid to commit again. I have no fear of committment to him, I believe he is who God made me to be with, I've waited my whole life for a man like him - a Godly, family man that truly understands the vows of marriage. He says he feels tempted by other women and since he does he feels he's not ready to commit to me.

Please pray for us that we can get him through this period of doubt and temptation. I love him so very much and it hurts my heart that he's in this stage of confusion, anger, stress and uncertainty. I hurt for him, I hate it that he feels like this and I would do ANYTHING to ease his heart.

I pray for him every night that he might be comforted, find peace in his heart and most importantly re-find his faith. I also pray that he will be brave and realize that I am the best woman for him. He's said it several times, he's said how much he loves me several times for a long time but has these periods of uncertainty. Please pray that we can move on together and his uncertainty will be completely behind him.

I want more than anything a wonderful, God cented, honest relationship with him. I truly believe he wants that with me and our children.

My heart hurts. Please pray for us.

If you could please post your prayer, it would help me pray as well as I am finding it difficult to put the words together.​

 

[peaceplease]

Sorry...put this in the wrong area....I'm new

 

[Blue sapphire]

My boyfriend and I have a wonderful, God centered relationship. We pray, we go to church together, we talk about our faith together, share it with our children (we are both divorced) and were building a wonderful life together, planning to get married etc.

Well, he is very stressed right now and it's really taking a toll on him. He's not wanting to go to church, I don't think he's praying like he used to and he's pushing me away telling me he's "not ready". I feel that he's just afraid to commit again. I have no fear of committment to him, I believe he is who God made me to be with, I've waited my whole life for a man like him - a Godly, family man that truly understands the vows of marriage. He says he feels tempted by other women and since he does he feels he's not ready to commit to me.

Please pray for us that we can get him through this period of doubt and temptation. I love him so very much and it hurts my heart that he's in this stage of confusion, anger, stress and uncertainty. I hurt for him, I hate it that he feels like this and I would do ANYTHING to ease his heart.

I pray for him every night that he might be comforted, find peace in his heart and most importantly re-find his faith. I also pray that he will be brave and realize that I am the best woman for him. He's said it several times, he's said how much he loves me several times for a long time but has these periods of uncertainty. Please pray that we can move on together and his uncertainty will be completely behind him.

I want more than anything a wonderful, God cented, honest relationship with him. I truly believe he wants that with me and our children.

My heart hurts. Please pray for us.

If you could please post your prayer, it would help me pray as well as I am finding it difficult to put the words together.​

Hello peace.....this is not a bad situation......better he deal with his confusion before marriage than during.

Yes pray for him..... but also allow him the time to work through his issues.....

It would seem both your prayers are being answered by him wanting to confront his spiritual issues before marriage.

Time is a great asset...... if you put it on your side.

Blessings

 

[peaceplease]

You have no idea how much I needed that today. Thank-you. Today has been very hard.

 

[Blue sapphire]

You have no idea how much I needed that today. Thank-you. Today has been very hard.

You're welcome peace......yes it is difficult when we want a certain thing to happen in a given time.....

God's time is different to ours.......He will allow us to wait for years at times to correct a certain situation......and even then we may not be fully aware of His intentions or fully trust in Him.

So be pleased if God is directing you to wait for a period.......it means He is wanting to make both of your paths straight before committing to marriage.

This waiting will teach you patience and a trusting in Him.......and the path He has for you is sure to be different to the path you expect..... for He is seeking to correct your spiritual weaknesses.

Enjoy the journey He has for......James 1:1-4 says it so well

 

[peaceplease]

Some days are worse than others. I guess its good that I miss him so much.