Relationship advice

[Aimee17]

There is this guy who lives next door and I never thought much of him as we hardly talk but I know their family are a good Christian family and they're really nice people. About a week ago my parents saw him and were speaking with him and said what a lovely, respectful boy he turned out to be. They said he asked about me and what I'm doing and said I must have a good work ethic and nice things.. I always remembered him to be shy. After that, I started to get fond of him and have this desire to get to know him more and potentially start a relationship. So, naturally I prayed to God about it and had a dream that night that he was fast asleep in his mother's arms while the rest of his family were fellowshipping together. Not sure what that meant, anyway so I decided to go on walks in the hope that I would be able to talk to him on the way back from my house. I saw him driving passed me as I was walking back but he didn't seem to notice me. Is he talking to my parents about me to see if I would make a good potential wife one day? I've also had several dreams about him in the past. I'm asking God for signs and feel like I can't quite hear him speak- need good biblical advice.

 

[mukk_in]

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires." (Song of Solomon 2:7). Take it easy and let God do the work for you child. That's the best advice that I can give you. Get to know the boy as a friend and brother in Christ first. Should it be God's will, He'll give you both marital love as well. Since both of you seem to be young, you'll also want to explore your lives and careers before tying the knot. God bless .

 

[Aimee17]

Yes, thank you for the reply!
I'm 18 turning 19 and he's 22.

 

[mukk_in]

Sent you some blessings. Please accept them. God bless you kiddo .

 

[Aimee17]

I'd thought I'd share my dreams that I've had in the past.
7th of April- The first was one I was lying on my front lawn with this older Chinese man and it looked like he was showing me something about going to walderly square and giving $500 to the bank. Next minute, a car pulls out of his driveway and it's not the usual blue but it's white. I wave and smile at him like I usually do and he waves back. The Chinese man sees this and gives me a massive smile ( he's studying to be an accountant btw)
Number two 24th April:
He was driving his blue car and swerved off to the side and crashed, one of the wheels came off. So I quickly helped him with his injuries ( I'm studying to be a nurse) and he was being quiet and shy.
Just curious to see what people's interpretations of these dreams could be- must be biblical..