Guys, my girlfriend and I had sex like two times and other sexual activities. Now we are no longer together and i regret what I did. I just wasn't thinking and I feel so unclean. Both of us lost our virginities and can no longer give it to our future spouses which i wanted to do. I was really dumb and now i don't know what to do. I just don't know if I'll forgive myself. I'm just worried that me losing my virginity will cost me so much including being with the one that i love.
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Repent, get up and walk the straight path again. Focus on God and not on your past. He loves you and will forgive you, and so will any christian woman you are meant to be with if they are true to God.
Praise him for giving you the conscience which has condemned you, and that he will remove the condemnation when you truly repent.
God Bless
Praise him for giving you the conscience which has condemned you, and that he will remove the condemnation when you truly repent.
God Bless
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That's a fact of life but not the end of the world. Get it sorted with God, get on with your life, and become a wiser young man.
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I believe God can restore us completely and make us new. That means a new start. Take the past and put it there where it belongs. Take God's promises and run with them. I had to do the same thing.
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TryingTo said:
I believe Desi means that if you were to mend things up with the woman you gave your virginity to, and then marry her you would have given it to your future wife. It's obviously something not to be taken lightly... the giving of your virginity and the thought of marriage. If you loved/cared for this woman enough to be sexual with her when once you wanted to wait until marriage, then there was something there that drew you to her.
Either way, repent to God and start over. Watch out for all things that could cause you to stumble again. Once you've experienced that and awoke sexuality up before God's planned timing, it is hard, I know from experience, to continue to walk again in purity, of heart, mind and body. So be on the watch and lean on God and others to keep some accountability.
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