reasons for divorce

[young@heart]

hey everyone

do you think you became divorced because you married the wrong person? or because you became selfish? ignored God? do you think theres a reason these things happen?

 

[dayhiker]

I'm divorced because of mistakes I made. I'll say it so you aren't confused about what I'm saying, I committed adultery. There were other issues that we should have been dealing with. Neither of us were good at communication. So even if I'd not committed adultery we were going to have to learn and change our marriage to make it work. Yet up until the end I don't think either of us were aware that we had serious communication issues.

 

[young@heart]

yeh similar issues to us then, we had big communication/ misunderstanding each other

 

[JohnDB]

hey everyone

do you think you became divorced because you married the wrong person? or because you became selfish? ignored God? do you think theres a reason these things happen?

When I married my wife I was young and dumb and absolutely ignored God...

And I have yet to finish paying the price for that mistake.

I married the wrong person who had absolutely no clue what a good relationship with God was about. when I decided to change my ways and mind and started going back to church I assisted in the creation of a pharisee. Looks good and acts good and says all the "right" words at times...but hasn't got the foggiest clue as to what a real relationship with God is all about.

granted I don't think everyone who claims Christ has to be perfect...but there is a difference in goals and dreams and visions for the future...they all are affected by your relationship with God. hers never were nor are to this day.

yeah...I have a lot to repent and apologize for.

 

[young@heart]

ok so neither of you wish you were still married to those people?