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Why thank you!

The only thing I know is that I don't want to find myself at the other end of that Phaser rifle....ouch!
 
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herev said:
Hello Josh!!!, welcome to WP. I think (God may strike me with the plague for speaking for a moderator), but it seems to me that wvmtnkid would only ask you to revise your statemtn because of where you are, not what you believe.
Well, you did a fine job explaining my position, so it seems you are saved from the plague....this time!
 
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Again, welcome, and thanks for the education on the Bible Missionary Church--I was unaware of its history--I always like learning more and more of our Wesleyan Brothers and Sisters

I appreciate you candor and your ferver in standing up for what you believe in--especially at your age--and your willingness to say, you know what, I might have done that differently given a chance--it is a sure sign of maturity when one can say that.

Sorry to repeat myself, but I hope you do understand that it was not WHAT you said, but where you said it. One of the hardest lessons I had to learn at your age was that no matter where you go, there are still rules. (you may not have that problem, so forgive the implication that you do--I am merely speaking of my own experience). This forum is one where debate of another's doctrine is not allowed--and there are plenty of forums for that. wvmtnkid is a great moderator and I have no doubt she struggled with what to do in this case. I seriously doubt it could be said that it was at a whim, so give her a little slack in this case, ok?

I am sorry for your experiences, I do not know which forum it was in, so I can't address that with any reason. I agree with you that we, as the church universal has become too attracted to wanting to be made too comfortable too often. I do believe though, as Wesley did, that you needn't agree with all of my doctrine to be counted as a brother. I am not sure what your denomination teaches, but one of my favorite quotes from John Wesley (as taught to me by my United Methodist Doctrine professor) can be found in WesleyJohn's signature line. It goes something like this: Though we do not think alike, may we not love alike?
Part of what this teaches me is that I will never win anyone over to my "side" or my way of thinking by insulting their beliefs. And if I push them away, any chance for witnessing is lost.

Joshua Howard said:
None the less, case closed. Once again, I never aimed to slam anyone, and if someone is offended, that person may rest assured that such was not my goal. God Bless,

In Christ Jesus,

Joshua
Thanks for taking the time to ensure to others that you mean no personal insult. I pray God's blessings on you as you continue to grow in Christ.

Tommy
 
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Thanks for the support, harev. I understand the rules, and am willing to cooperate with them. It is hard for me to accept restrictions such as this when I feel that somewhere along the line they are biased against my favor - But I suppose that isn't my place to decide anyway. My main aim in all this has not in any way been to defy moderators, I add... It was merely an effort to uphold the legitimacy of what I have said. I feel that I have, as much as is possible, done so.

The BMC does not teach the rejection of other denominations (Though it does teach the error of a majority of them). We get along best with other weslians though, of course. Picture a methodist church in 1800 and you'll see basically what we're like today. This ranges from dress standards to policies on worldliness and sin. We are no doubt on the 'right' end of the stick when it comes to standards & doctrine. (pun intended) Interestingly, we get scoffed at sometimes, but more than not, we are honored even by the world for our conservative stand. Needless to say, however, though a brother you may be, you have to be more than 'the average weslian' to join our church.

In Christ Jesus,

Joshua
 
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Sorry, I went out on a limb and meant he'd be elected by Americans not any particular denomination. I agree churches shouldn't endorse candidates.
 
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bigsierra said:
Most Catholics I know aren't inclined to vote for him, even if he does claim the religion
In every U.S. Presidential election since 1928 except 1972, 1980, and 1984, the majority of Catholic voters voted for the Democratic candidate and polls indicate they will this year too.
 
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Sorry, I went out on a limb and meant he'd be elected by Americans not any particular denomination. I agree churches shouldn't endorse candidates.


Well if that was your meaning then I apologize. I was under the impression that when you said "we" in your first post you were referring the United Methodist Church instead of your prediction as to who America would elect in general. Again I apologize for my misinterpretation and thank you for explaining your post. Have a great day.
God Bless,
Nick
 
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Responding to Bigsierra,

Yeah, that's about how we dress -- We don't teach the doctrine of the headcovering though. Seems like our standard for dress is more open to general preference than is Charity Ministries... Charity seems to usually go for plain colors and handmade clothing, they wouldn't wear neckties or dress suits, etc. - Basically, their standard is the same as ours, though theirs is a bit more plain when it comes to appearance.
 
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At this point, I myself don't personally see the Biblical relevence of the teaching, but I certainly don't have a problem with the teaching amongst those that do.

P.S. - You are the first person that has shed positive light on the dress standards of myself and my church. Alot of the folks in the youth room have beat me over the head on this one betimes. Thanks for the support, bigsierra.
 
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Joshua-

The picture that bigsierra posted reminded me alot of the dress of the Brethern Church. My grandparents and actually my father's family attended the Church of the Brethern. Are there connections in the church you attend and the Brethern Church?
 
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No offense taken. That has to be the nicest apology I've ever seen directed at anyone on any MB.
 
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wvmtnkid,

For clarity, the picture that bigsierra posted is from a network of churches that fall under the title of Charity Ministries. Charity is an Amish-reformed church; One of it's founders was converted from the amish church, whereas the other was drawn out of the baptist church due to various issues of error that he saw therein. The result was a church that was more or less weslian in general belief. If my reccolection is correct, the Brethren church is quaker - If such is true, then these two churches are of similar historical origin. You could pretty accurately compare Charity to a conservative mennonite church.

Charity has beliefs and standards very similar to the Bible Missionary Church (Which is my church), however. They offer some very good material and defenses in light of various topics such as the Christian home, Marriage, as well as standards... I highly recommend them, (even more so than my own denomination in certain aspects) though I mildly disagree with them on a few insignificant points.

The strictness of Charity churches varies much from individual to individual - For example, some new amish converts might say that it would be worldly for a girl to wear a pink shirt with a flower on it, whereas someone else from a more liberal background wouldn't.

I attached a picture of the youth at my Bible Missionary Church North Pacific district camp meeting. You can get some idea of what we look like. Laying aside the white shirts and ties, that's more or less how we dress all the time. Though our standard is a bit less 'plain' than Charity in some ways, we still ban gender neutral clothing styles, and the women still wear their dresses down to the floor. Guys don't wear shorts, and we all wear long sleves.
 

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