I recently made friends with a devoted Christian. I have a question for this forum....Why do devoted Chrsitians take the bible so literally? It should be used a guidline and advice. It should not be interpreted as how to live your life. It should be your choice if you want to remain a virigin untill marrriage or YOUR choice if you do not want to drink, but to me it seems that you are making these discisions because Jesus in some way or another said to. Looking through this board I noticed that people will actually search and quote the Bible in order to defend themselves. I make my choices in life by my feelings, wants and needs. I agree that the Bible is educating and Jesus' words were that of clarity and goodness, but I dont believe that his words should be taken so literally, they are merely guidelines. The Christian views of my friend are so strong and I just dont understand how ones life's decisions can be based on a book. There is a topic on this forum discussing if it is right to french kiss...why not? This shouldnt even be an issue.....lets love whoever we want..actions speak louder than words, sexual education should be sought in other sources rather than the Bible. No one should feel guilt for doing something that is natural...why is guilt a huge issue in Christianity? This topic is in no way to offend anyone, I am very accepting of others beliefs and culture and views, I just have some questions and would love to view other's opinion's.