When my boyfriend and I first started dating he was still fairly good friends with his ex, they still talked and hung out a little but they also shared all the same friends still. As the months went by they would no longer hug goodbye and talked less to now they only talk on occasion. At the beginning he had a picture of him and her from their Karate class hanging on a board in his room, when I mentioned it he just said it was part of his past and so on was all/ 6 months later I noticed it was gone, when mentioned to him he said duh it was his past and he didn't even remember it was there and why would he keep a pic like that up? (The female inside of me going... huh?) Then last night we were talking about nicknames... she had called him Wolfy and I had noticed a couple months ago that her nick on aim was still WolfysGal. When mentioned to him he was like so it's her nick she's had it for a long time... (Ok fine) Then on the discussion last night he said Wolfy was his nick and I told him why I refused to call him that and he *in a wondering tone* wondered if she still had that nick and he sounded like it would be really dumb if she did. (Can we say... huh?) What is this kind of mind melt? Is it the... emotions die over time thing can a guy explain this because I'm curious....
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- Thread starter Alineko
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Well, a person's emotion can't really speak for all. What your boyfriend did doesn't mean that it is typical among men. Emotion can fade overtime but I believe it still lingers for years especially a good relationship. However, the relationship between you and him is strong enough to overcome the old relationship. Why? you are much closer to him than his ex.
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i guess it also depends... how much time between him breaking up and you two starting together?
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