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My stepfather lost his job today. He worked for ten years for the mortgage department of a large bank. When he worked in the mail room a few years ago, he got in trouble for, in essence, witnessing. They didn't really call it that but wrote him up and warned him to refrain from discussing religion at work. A year or so later he was written up for "harassment" which ended up being the same thing. He was told if he was reported one more time he would be fired. He was put on 6 months probation, passed it, and kept working. A month ago he was transferred to a new department in the company. He thought it would be better because the one or two people who filed all the complaints would not be there. I guess it did not matter because today he was canned. My stepdad is not a person to just say, "I am sorry your son is sick, he is in my prayers" He is more of a in-your-face, broken-record type. Not that this is neccesarily bad, but AT WORK?
I am a Christian and always have been blessed to work with schools that are either Christian or have a large percentage of Christian people with whom I work. So maybe I don't understand it. But after the first write up, I would have stopped being so open or whatever. I would decorate my cubicle with religious art, leave tracts around maybe, and above all let my actions speak for me.
My mom acts like he is a hero. I see him as unemployed unneccesarily. Isn't there a proper time and place for out-in-the-open witnessing? Is it wrong to keep a lid on it to keep your job and a roof over your head?
I feel like a sub-standard Christian for wishing he had just toned down the sermons at work. Maybe I should feel he is a hero for risking his job to ask people if they are Christians.
I am just confused and would like input. I wasn't sure if this is OK for this forum but this is one I would not appreciate a humanists' input on.
One thing my stepdad and I agree on, it is that God will provide for he and my mom. They would still appreciate your prayers tho.
I am a Christian and always have been blessed to work with schools that are either Christian or have a large percentage of Christian people with whom I work. So maybe I don't understand it. But after the first write up, I would have stopped being so open or whatever. I would decorate my cubicle with religious art, leave tracts around maybe, and above all let my actions speak for me.
My mom acts like he is a hero. I see him as unemployed unneccesarily. Isn't there a proper time and place for out-in-the-open witnessing? Is it wrong to keep a lid on it to keep your job and a roof over your head?
I feel like a sub-standard Christian for wishing he had just toned down the sermons at work. Maybe I should feel he is a hero for risking his job to ask people if they are Christians.
I am just confused and would like input. I wasn't sure if this is OK for this forum but this is one I would not appreciate a humanists' input on.
One thing my stepdad and I agree on, it is that God will provide for he and my mom. They would still appreciate your prayers tho.