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PTSD General Thoughts

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Sheltercove

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I've found alot of support as a wife of a soldier who developed PTSD 1 yr after deployment. I've come to understand some of the factors that hinder or help recovery. It's somewhat of a praise report that my husband no longer has the intense symptoms anymore. I'm wondering if others have noticed the same as I have.
After dh retired last month and began his new civilian job, things began to really look up, I noticed a change in him. He said that he thinks it's not having to put that uniform on anymore (more than shorttimers disease/syndrome) and go to a place that looks like, plans for, revolves around the current conflict that contributed/CAUSED this. Putting on a suit and tie each day is like shedding his old skin. I think though about Vietnam vets who never shook it and am wondering if this is just on hiatus for a time, like it would've been for those vets and it's just going to come and bite us in the butt again. I totally trust and thank God for the steps forward. I guess I get a bit gun shy and am one who likes to anticipate the worst so it's no shock when things do happen, you know what I mean?
He wasn't even what someone would think of as your typical ptsd case, and part of it wasn't even IRAQ, that was only perhaps 75% of it, which makes it hard because the 25% of the issues that were a precursor are issues that he had to deal with under duress while getting the unit out the door and dealing with a boatload of junk there.
Anyhow, I'm here if anyone needs to throw a question out, or share an answer to a question I may have posted above. It's just an issue close to my heart, and something that I too have battled along with him, to a lesser degree of course.
 

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Bless ya darlin'! I've suffered from PTSD for 15 years now.

Part of it from the military, but never in battle. I was raped in the military. I get flashbacks to this day. And I have good days and bad. My husband is the one who is living this with me. And bless him for it, cuz it ain't easy!

It's just something I learned to live w/. I can feel an episode coming on. And try to take steps to get thru it. I also warn my family when I'm crabby, so they leave me alone.. LOL!
 
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PTSD is far too common. I had something happen to me in the military and suffered a form of it myself. God's really worked on me but I realized when just discussing a bit of it today that it still does affect me somewhat.

My husband is deployed and I constantly pray he will not be affected. He's already lost two teammates and attended more ramp ceremonies than anybody should have to attend in their entire life.

God bless you and your husband. You're both in my prayers.
 
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