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Prayers for guidance and and update with Thanksgiving

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3FingeredMonkey

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First off, I wish to thank everyone for their prayers after my post back in February . So much has happened since then , most for the best .

To start off , an update on the situations I mentioned then . My Mom came home from the hospital after 2 months back on April 2nd. She still has issues with her memory and still gets confused , but her improvement is amazing and can be seen each day . Only our Father could bring about such healing.

As for the job/ manager situation I was facing ... well, within 2 weeks of posting , she was removed from the company. What was really amazing , and I could never have done on my own power , is that despite all of the bad blood between us , we were able to work well together in that time and had come to a place of respect for one another before she left . I can even say now that I even learned some things from her that have helped me in the situation I'm in now.

Which leads me to where I now am .

March ended with a major shake up at work ,new management staff coming in and it appeared my position as lead Projectionist at the Cinema I worked at being scaled back . Yet , right before it became official , I was contacted by a new Theater opening 5 minutes from home ( I was 30 minutes away from the other ) and was recruited as one of their managers.

It has been real exciting , not only moving up to a better position and having greater freedom to work in and with the departments I love and excel at , but to play a role in opening up a new location .

Even better, it has become quite obvious that the majority of the superiors and fellow managers are strong believers. Not only in their speech , but their walk . I can also tell , it is also true with a number of my employees.

Downside at this time, is one manager who believes that the way to advance is to play one against another and take credit for other work and spread gossip , etc. It has created a tense situation between myself and that individual. Said individual is one who is on the fence with their beliefs.

I am guilty of allowing anger and bitterness towards this person to cloud my judgement at times and sadly , my tongue has been sharp . I know I have sinned in this and even attempted to apologize and correct the matter , only to have my words twisted and used against me.That still does not excuse my part.

And, I try to remind myself that almost all see through this person.

I ask for prayers for not only this situation and individual , but also that I might be a positive leader for the Lord. Especially since I have a large number of young people working for me and desire to be a good role model for them and hopefully a good example of our faith , being able to be there ready to share when needed.

Again, thank you , everyone for your prayers for my job, family and especially my Mother.

In HIS service ,

John
 

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Thank you so much for this John. I do remember your requests. :clap: Praise God for all He has done. Oy! Working in business can be so hard at times. But you sound great, a good attitude and humility before the Lord. He can use that. Controlling our tongues is our most challenging area as Christians. Most honorable request.

Dear Heavenly Father I lift up John to You. I thank You and praise You for the spark of joy and encouragement I got from his testimony and Your work. I pray You will bless him with this co-worker. Help him to be quick to listen and slow to speak. You know how he can get through this trial. Bless him with wisdom. You created us and know more about our thoughts and feelings than anyone on earth. Counsel him Holy Spirit.

In Jesus Name, Amen.
 
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I am praising God for this update. God is so good to answer our prayers and also to give us the grace to resolve differences when needed. All of this brought to mind something much like what you described at work which happened to me. God entered as we prayed and that made such a difference. Bless you..am :prayer:ing for you today!
 
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Praying in complete agreement...:groupray:



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3fingeredmonkey,

This is wonderful news. I certainly remember your posts back when it was so rough for you.

As far as the anger, bitterness, and sharp tongue go; definitely make this a priority in your prayer life. Force yourself to be alert against saying things before thinking them through. My reason for saying this is that Satan will set snares all over the place for you at work in the form of whatever gets to you. He doesn't want you to prosper then come here and give glory to God.

Normally, I always apologize to others when I may have acted or spoken rash. But in this circumstance, I feel confident that I can advise you to be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.

Be wise as a serpent means to know your enemy and how he operates. He's just waiting for you to slip up and think you should apologize. Unless the Holy Spirit is compelling you to do so, don't. Satan will prepare certain people to rip you to shreds as soon as you try to be gracious.

Be gentle as a dove means to be self-controlled, slow to speak, quick to hear, and slow to wrath. God will help you to overcome this small hurdle. It's not a big flaw. But it's the little foxes that spoil the whole hen house, right? You are already wise to acknowledge your present weakness and then to confess it here where we can pray for you.



Father, your Word says "He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city." I ask that you quicken my sister's spirit and make her able to do this without effort in Jesus name. (Prov 16:32)

Your Word also says, "But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified." Make monkey to be disciplined and in control in Jesus name. Amen. (2 cor 9:27)

Matthew 10:16
Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.
 
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Thanks everyone for the prayers , advice and encouragement . Been away from the forums the past few days fighting a cold and doing a lot for the cinema from home.

Update on my Mom , Tuesday the 24th while at therapy , she fell and broke her hip. Luckily , she was at her physical therapy near the hospital so help was immediately available . Wed. , surgery was performed to pin her hip . All went well , but she will be in the hospital for a few days , the back to the rehab facility for another few days .

Difficult part for her will be that the injury was to her right side.. the side affected by the stroke she had after her surgery in February . So , learning to use a walker will be a challenge as she needs to keep the weight off of that side .

She is in great spirits though and giving thanks to the Lord .
 
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Difficult part for her will be that the injury was to her right side.. the side affected by the stroke she had after her surgery in February . So , learning to use a walker will be a challenge as she needs to keep the weight off of that side
Actually it was good it was on the same side otherwise she would be battling two bad sides and would not be able to get along as well.

Praying for her rapid recovery and for you.
 
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