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Hey guys can you please pray? 8 weeks til the wedding, I'm totally stressed with life.

Firstly, the flat my fiance was looking at moving into isn't going ahead, and it's virutally impossible to get a place here at any reasonable rate. Secondly, my flatmate put our house on the market, without telling me! Then my fiance found out today he'll be working 5 days out of 7 an hour away and coming home only for the weekend. I am also trying to finish organising everything (a little behind i am), finish my fianl paper in a course i did last year, find a place for us to live, cope with my hectic workschedule,, and start a new job on top of this this week.

Me? I'm stressed, and I don't want it to lead to depression again. Not fair on me, him or our families.

Goodnight, I think sleep is the best remedy for my short sleep last night.
 

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Praying for you. :prayer:

You still have eight weeks. Keep in mind that some people plan entire weddings in that amount of time. Take things step by step. It will all work out. You gotta stay calm, otherwise you won't enjoy your day in the same way, and you will get everything done much easier by trying not to stress. (Easier said than done, I know.)

About the flat. Do you have family nearby? I know it definitely isn't ideal, but as a last resort, you could move in until you find a nicely priced place. I don't know about there, but where I'm at houses typically take awhile to sell and close, so you may have a little more time there.

One thing at a time sweetie!
 
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