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Pray for my ex-girlfriend

archigeek

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Two days ago, I ended an unequally yoked dating relationship of 4.5 years. I loved this woman as deeply as anyone I have ever loved. I still do, and yet together we could see no future. As if her being agnostic and me a christian wasn't enough, I wanted children and she didn't, and she is beginning to fullfill a lifelong dream of live abroad while I wasn't especially keen on the idea. I'm sure any number of you are asking who would date someone who is such a miss-match on such important issues? And I guess I'm your answer. I fell head over heals for her and all of her other amazing qualities, but in the end being an amazing person isn't enough! In her own ways she is a wonderful woman, an amazing woman, and I pray for her every day, that God might reveal himself to her. I will continue to do so.

So now that we are apart, I am asking any of you to pray for her. God would have a wonderful soldier if she could just see him, as I've never known anyone so dedicated to the things she cares about.

Please pray for Laura.
 

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Good choice, archigeek. Hope you don't change your mind and go back with her. If you start to consider it, I suggest you read some of the older threads in this section if you haven't already.

You probably just saved yourself decades of heartache.

I am praying for Laura, that she would open her heart and accept Christ.

And I'm praying you don't change your mind, but move on to the next chapter in your life.

You have aligned yourself to allow God to bless you someday with a wonderful Christian woman.

Wise decision in every way.
 
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kayd1966

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Amen to that!

I am praying for Laura to accept Jesus as her Savior.

I'm also praying for you. You have made a very courageous decision and I know God will bless you for it. Please take this time to read your Bible and learn more about the Lord. You have taken a step that can bring you closer to God and I pray that you will draw closer to Him.
 
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I stand in agreement with you and everyone who responded. God is certainly going to bless you in a wonderful way for your obedience. Just remember that God's laws are for our own good and protection.

Once you have healed from this break-up, God can move to bring you someone who suits you just as well and loves the Lord. Please stay strong and lean on him when you're feeling weak.

Praying for Laura's salvation. :groupray:
 
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oat02351

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archigeek said:
Two days ago, I ended an unequally yoked dating relationship of 4.5 years. I loved this woman as deeply as anyone I have ever loved. I still do, and yet together we could see no future. As if her being agnostic and me a christian wasn't enough, I wanted children and she didn't, and she is beginning to fullfill a lifelong dream of live abroad while I wasn't especially keen on the idea. I'm sure any number of you are asking who would date someone who is such a miss-match on such important issues? And I guess I'm your answer. I fell head over heals for her and all of her other amazing qualities, but in the end being an amazing person isn't enough! In her own ways she is a wonderful woman, an amazing woman, and I pray for her every day, that God might reveal himself to her. I will continue to do so.

So now that we are apart, I am asking any of you to pray for her. God would have a wonderful soldier if she could just see him, as I've never known anyone so dedicated to the things she cares about.

Please pray for Laura.
Wow, my better half is agnostic. Everything else is groovie though and he's a great guy. I pray the same for him and for you. As for breaking up, it's always hard. Sooner or later things always have a way of falling into place though. Take heart my friend. You will find someone who you fit together with like a hand in a glove. I never thought it would happen to me but, it did. It takes time though. Give yourself some time and pray.
 
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