Pray for me

[Homo Sapien]

I am having a serious problem.
I am engaged to be married to my high school sweetheart, we are both virgins and plan on waiting until our wedding night but a problem has come up.
Last week I was in her apartment(feeding her cat and watering her plants while she is away on business), her bed was unmade I guess because she was in a hurry to leave so I decided to change her linens for her and I found sextoys and videotapes in her linen closet.
I am very upset by this and wonder if I should confront her when she gets back.

 

[Didymus]

Yes. but do it calmly. They may not be hers. My husband subscribed to Playboy for years even when he was saved. i just kept my mouth shut and he finally was convicted of the harm it was doing. If you knew me you would know how hard it is for me not to talk.

 

[solo66 man]

Originally posted by Homo Sapien
I am having a serious problem.
I am engaged to be married to my high school sweetheart, we are both virgins and plan on waiting until our wedding night but a problem has come up.
Last week I was in her apartment(feeding her cat and watering her plants while she is away on business), her bed was unmade I guess because she was in a hurry to leave so I decided to change her linens for her and I found sextoys and videotapes in her linen closet.
I am very upset by this and wonder if I should confront her when she gets back.

Didymus is right. Be careful. She may not have even known she had them. Above all be patient. If you love eachother,
do not let such a trivial matter break you apart. There are many and much more important matters that will do that for you if you are not strong in your relationship.

 

[Blessed-one]

approach her reasonably with a touch of concern.
i'll be praying.

 

[Snor Snor]

I agree, do it calmly and out of love. Doing it too harshly could get her angry. I'll pray for you and your girlfriend.

God bless ya!