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Earlier this year, I was kidnapped and was almost raped. I managed to struggle and get away. I called my ex boyfriend who came to get me. At first, my ex boyfriend was supportive and thoughtful. He eventually got tired of me not being able to heal in time. He started being physically abusive to me. He started choking me at random times. He accused me of being with being in a relationship that man. On Halloween, he finally snapped. He raped me. He has. I to it'd to call me crazy and say I'm lying. His family has been harassing me. He is seeking to get me into legal trouble. Will you pray for my peace and hopefully his salvation?
 

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You don't 'get over' events like that quickly. You were deeply wounded. You will be confused about several issues. Talking and praying with a suitable person, having sensible support, getting back into life, and some good teaching will all contribute to getting your life 'back on track' after such a horrible period.

John
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