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Is this a red flag? Should I feel hurt and upset by this?

  • Not red flag, but I should feel hurt and upset.

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trophy33

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Of course its not something a good Christian girl would say.

But I am not sure why you are asking if you should feel hurt. Simply act as a man and if its something you do not want, then find another one who will be more according to your wishes.

Its your personal life and we cannot vote about how you should feel or what you should do.

Edit: I just realized this is in the "engagement" section. If you are already engaged, then its more serious and you should act more carefully. You already made a promise and promises should not be broken unless its really necessary.
 
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Thera

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I would be careful. It may be that she meant that she would more seriously consider a marriage proposal from a rich stranger. But someone who only values her fidelity and/or marriage at $10 million dollars is someone for whom that price may change in future, and you wouldn't want unfaithfulness because her value of your marriage dropped to a low point in your lives together.
 
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