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That is all true, but what does a single guy do when nature makes it's call?
If you can't use inappropriate content, or you can't have sex outside of marriage.
Then what?
Marry just for sex, and not burn with lust.
That's pretty close to what Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 (NLT),
2) But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. 3) The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. 4) The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. 5) Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
And as for quitting inappropriate content, as I'm sure you know, it ain't easy. Science has shown that the underlying nature of an addiction to inappropriate contentography is chemically, nearly identical, to a heroin addiction. One way is to use a inappropriate content blocker/filter on all of your devices; phone, desktop, tablet, etc. One good one is~~~> K9 Web Protection .
The secret to success with one of these filters is, you've got to have an accountability partner, a close friend or family member that you'd be completely embarrassed and shamed if they knew you were looking at inappropriate content. These filters, when setup correctly, will send an email to your accountability partner, if you try to access any websites or content that are blocked, showing the web addresses of the website/s. Your accountability partner does have a part in setting up the filter, expressly, the password to access the filtering software, so that you can't go in there and turn off the filtering program. If you're serious about quitting, this is one good way to go about it.
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