Hi, I’m a 30s yr old guys, and I have struggled with inappropriate content ever since I can remember. Since I was a very young teenager I have been getting caught up in the mind altering drug of inappropriate content. I get sad every time I think about it. How much of my life I have wasted to watching a worthless substance that tricks your mind into wanting it more and more when all it brings is hurt pain and destruction. I couldn’t even imagine how many days of my life have been wasted to inappropriate content if I added it all up. It’s really sad and I’m ashamed to admit it but it has really been a struggle of mine. I have hurt my wife countless times and lied more than I could admit. She doesn’t deserve any of it, being a great woman she has stood by me even when I obviously haven’t deserved for her to. I want so much more for my life. To have a normal mindset and not be troubled by what my eyes see everyday. It is def a progressive deal. I want so badly to be done with the person I have been. I have been lazy when it comes to my struggle to be honest. I do well for a couple months, and think I’m doing great, and then one thing happens and I get triggered and fall completely off the horse. I do realize now that I have to work at this daily, and not allow myself to become complacent and thing that I have this thing beat. I need to learn and learn and learn, and work at this like I would attack any other project in my life. As I sad I have been lazy and allowed myself to fall off again and it is killing my wife. I want to be a better man for her and my kids too. I don’t want thyme to grow up and have to explain to them why their daddy had to live in a different place because their mom couldn’t handle my issues any longer. That pains my heart to think that there may come a day that I would have to have that conversation with my kids. I want to work at this and get better. Replace my bad habits with good ones and keep my mind clear of all the things that lead me back to inappropriate content. I have realized that I am way more sensitive than I ever thought. There’s so many cues or triggers that can send me over the edge, and I have to be cautious what I allow to enter into my eyes. I have bought a couple books that I plan to read and help with habit forming and the idolatry of inappropriate content addiction. Hopefully reading and being active in my recovery will allow me to really make good progress and not backslide again. I don’t think my wife can honestly take anymore, so it’s now or never for me and my family. I know and believe in my heart that I can do it. the lord tells me that I can all things through him, and I have to do this. Thanks for listening or reading rather, I just pray that I can actually overcome this horrible mindset that has ruined years of my and my wife’s lives.