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[lamblion]

Please someone....... I nee help right now. Can someone give advice?

 

[jkryle]

Please someone....... I nee help right now. Can someone give advice?

Jer 33:3 [God is speaking]
Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.

 

[UnionJack]

help with what?

 

[lamblion]

Ok...... My wife cheated on me because she said she was unhappy. Because i didnt know how to respond to the situation and didnt really know how to just leave, so i retaliated and cheated back. After alot of drama we decided to work it out, but in the midst she decided she couldn't take the pain from my cheating and she moved out. For eight months she left and got her own apartment, and also feel in love with another man.(The one she cheated with) Finally somehow she decided she wanted her marraige and so did I, so we are now back together.......... But day by day im dying inside knowing that another man not only had my wife physically but emtionally as well. I dont know what to do. Im only 25 and this pain is rediculous. I dont even know if i have grounds to leave anymore. She says she never loved him, but she did things with him that i cant believe, esspecilly in so short of a time of our seperation. I just need some help please.

 

[Johnnz]

Seems to me that you both have issues that require some wise counsel. Neither of you behaved in accordance with Christian values. You need to really look at the whys of that. Plus, look at your marriage too - both of you. Things like false or unrealistic expectations, sexual issues, things that the other isn't coping with, each others contribution to what the other did. These will take time and wisdom to sort through. But with God at the centre both of you can move on beyond your current pain and confusion.

John
NZ

 

[toojoyful]

I totally agree with Johnnz, and I hope you will heed to the advice.
I'm praying for you and your wife, God can and will turn this situation around, but you guys must be willing to go hand in hand to receive this blessing of restoration in which the enemy tried to destroy.

Lets pray:

Heavenly Father, we enter into Your presence with hearts willing to receive Your mercy thats new every morning. Father, I stand in the gap right now asking that You to please help Lamblion and his wife to humble themselves before You, so that them may receive clear understanding to the things You will reveal to heal each. Please connect them to godly counsel that will listen to Your voice and receive clear understanding to help them get healing that will bring restoration into their marriage. Thank You Father in advance, Amen

Lamblion theres a tough road ahead, but if you and your wife fight for what God has joined together...no man or devil can defeat it. All things are possible for those who believe..

Joyful