Please Tell Me!

No*coincidence · Jul 28, 2004

Hello. I a 15 years old and I have had sex four times since I've turned 15. Now, I've given my life to Chirst and want to do what I'm supposed to. But I wanted to know if because I've already given away my virginity, if the person God had planned to marry me, is still there for me. And will I find someone as dedicated to me and God as the person God orriginaly had planned for me. And if I decide to stay pure from now on, will that make a difference. Please write me back, I would love an answer.

Faith In God · Jul 28, 2004

Your past God has forgiven you. but when you begin a courtship, you must not hide anything from your engaged.

Remember, God knows what happened, what is happening, what will happen, and all this He knew before you did these things. God is not going to plan one person for you before you've lost your virginity, and another if you 'blow it'.

12volt_man · Jul 28, 2004

No*coincidence said:
I a 15 years old and I have had sex four times since I've turned 15. Now, I've given my life to Chirst and want to do what I'm supposed to. But I wanted to know if because I've already given away my virginity, if the person God had planned to marry me, is still there for me.

I don't know but I do know that God has a plan for you. God wants only the best for you and the Bible tells us that He will turn our mistakes into good things if we will turn them over to Him.

The only thing I can tell you for sure is that you can go to God at any time with any problem and I hope you will do that with this.

I think right now, you're putting the cart before the horse. You're fifteen. You've got a long way to go. For now, decide to get right with God and quit having sex and be a fifteen year old. All of the other stuff will fall in line soon enough.

And if I decide to stay pure from now on, will that make a difference.

Nothing bad ever came from being obedient to God.

Memory's Flame · Jul 28, 2004

(((HUGZ)))

God has a plan for us all, regardless of our mistakes in the past! There are many people here who have been down that road before, and after being Saved, have found the person God has intended for them!!

Jesus_help_me · Jul 28, 2004

When U go to GOD he forgives all ur sins and ur sex history. And he will point you the way to the person he has planned out for you. So keep living for God and you will find him.

tndrwarrior · Jul 28, 2004

No coincidence,
Please don't take this the wrong way, but this is an excellent parable that answers your question exacty: (the woman in the story was a prostitute)

Luke 7

44Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven--for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little."
48Then Jesus said to her, "Your sins are forgiven."

This woman had led a sinful life up until she met Jesus. And when she did, she served Him with all she had. Do the same and the Lord will surely save you.

macandcheese · Jul 28, 2004

First of all, Welcome to the family of Christ!!

Second. God is very pleased with your decision to follow him. He wants the best for you, wants you to be happy. Making the decision to remain pure from now on is another important decision. God wants you to remain pure because He knows that it is the best, healthiest thing for you. Your decision will make a difference, because it is a decision to follow God's will! He knows your heart, knows how you truly feel, and you will be blessed for following His will.
God has someone special just for you, and someday you will be very happy together. You may need to be patient, but it will be well worth the wait.
there have been many people to make the choice to remain pure after they lose their virginity; they are 'second time' virgins or 'born-again' virgins.
peace be with you.
rach

Jynx3dx1 · Jul 29, 2004

If that person that you get with can accept the fact that you had a troubled past but still love you and still want to go through life with you, there shouldnt be any problem. Although ur physical body may have lost its purity, when u accept christ, you heart becomes clean. =D

hope it helped

tyr0ne · Jul 29, 2004

No*coincidence said:
Hello. I a 15 years old and I have had sex four times since I've turned 15. Now, I've given my life to Chirst and want to do what I'm supposed to. But I wanted to know if because I've already given away my virginity, if the person God had planned to marry me, is still there for me. And will I find someone as dedicated to me and God as the person God orriginaly had planned for me. And if I decide to stay pure from now on, will that make a difference. Please write me back, I would love an answer.

The Bible describes God as the, first and last, the beginning and the end. He knows the plans He has for you and knew that you would sin, God will still have the same person planned for you. When you give your life to Jesus (gratz btw ) your sins are payed for by the work of the cross and forgotten by God. He still has the same person planned for you.

About this part:

And if I decide to stay pure from now on, will that make a difference.

Yes. The Bible says sex before marraige is a sin. Sure you did it before but then you accepted Jesus and had your sins forgiven. Staying pure is also a commitment to God saying that how you used to do things (the worlds way) didnt work, now you are gonna try it God's way

Hope that helps you.

Radagast · Jul 29, 2004

tndrwarrior said:
No coincidence,
Please don't take this the wrong way, but this is an excellent parable that answers your question exacty: (the woman in the story was a prostitute) ...

To take another such parallel:

Then Joshua son of Nun secretly sent two spies from [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]tim. "Go, look over the land," he said, "especially Jericho." So they went and entered the house of a prostitute named Rahab and stayed there ... the woman had taken the two men and hidden them ... Before the spies lay down for the night, she went up on the roof and said to them, "I know that the LORD has given this land to you ... Now then, please swear to me by the LORD that you will show kindness to my family, because I have shown kindness to you" ... Joshua spared Rahab the prostitute, with her family and all who belonged to her, because she hid the men Joshua had sent as spies to Jericho-and she lives among the Israelites to this day ... (Joshua 2 & 6)

And who was this repentant prostitute? The great-great (many times) grandmother of Jesus!

Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab, Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth, Obed the father of Jesse, and Jesse the father of King David ... Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, of whom was born Jesus, who is called Christ (Matthew 1)

So yes, as SD said, God has a plan for us all, regardless of our mistakes in the past!

-- Radagast

DSGodChild · Jul 29, 2004

Hello No*coincidence,

Congratulations on your decision! I wish I would have decided to respond to Christ as early as you did; I would have avoided a lot of stupid mistakes. So, good move!

Don't be stressed out about your past. God has forgotten your past because of your choice to follow him. Isaiah 43:25 says: "I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more." God has forgiven you for your past mistakes, and he will not take away any future mate because you screwed up.

Don't take this as an invitation to sin, though. God is forgiving, but also demanding. Jesus said: "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord', will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven" (Mat 7:21). Stay the path, sister, and trust that God has forgiven you and that He loves you.

Once again, congratulations! I'm praying for you.

No*coincidence · Jul 29, 2004

Thank-you all so much. Everything everyone said helped. Thank-you.

TheMainException · Jul 29, 2004

To strive to stay pure from here on out does make a difference. God still has great plans for you...I can't say for sure whether or not he has the same person still picked out for you...but no matter what happens that you can or can't control, God is there, he loves you, wants the best for you, and he won't leave or forsake you...keep striving to love God and obey him from here on out!

.Mikha'el. · Aug 4, 2004

God's plan for you cannot be thwarted. It does not matter than your past is laden with sin. That changes nothing. The person that he wants you to be with now is the same person that he has always wanted for you. However, you deserve a lot of credit for turning your life around.

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