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[abelieverinChrist05]

Me and this girl have been talking.
We've been talking for about 2 months now.
She gave me a "frienship" poem and im wondering if i need to do the same.
I do like this girl and i think she likes me.
What can i do in this situation.


How can i maintain this friendship so it can grow to more than a friendship.

 

[PolarBear3]

You don't need to give her a poem back ... unless you both have a fondness for poems and that's your style. But giving her something or doing something with her that makes her feel special would let her know that you like her and could start to move your relationship into more than a friendship. So figure out what she likes and dislikes (if you haven't already) and do something with that. And it doesn't have to be expensive or extravagant - sometimes the simple gestures can mean a lot.

 

[abelieverinChrist05]

You don't need to give her a poem back ... unless you both have a fondness for poems and that's your style. But giving her something or doing something with her that makes her feel special would let her know that you like her and could start to move your relationship into more than a friendship. So figure out what she likes and dislikes (if you haven't already) and do something with that. And it doesn't have to be expensive or extravagant - sometimes the simple gestures can mean a lot.

Thank you for your advice.
Thanks for taking time reading this post,.

 

[Luther073082]

Yeah it doesn't have to be a poem, just make it special.

Although I would consider trying to move forward and ask her out. I've never had any friends suddenly write me a poem so to me that seems to indicate that she's looking for something more and is trying to indicate this to you.

I could be wrong but I find it odd that a "friend" would suddenly write you a poem.

 

[Solo Man]

Take her out on a date. nothing too fancy, just a casual place and start talking to her. ask her questions. if you still like her, leave an opening for yourself for another date. respect her, and get her home on time. and pay for everything. and open doors. that stuff is just gentlemanly.