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ughhhh... I found the most awesome house this weekend, in a really wonderful neighborhood... and it's $40K cheaper than the house I almost bought, that I'm living in now!  :D  The contract went thru last night, and they even agreed to pay closing costs!

However... tomorrow is Loan Day  (crack, boom...)  I am not sure I will qualify.  Of course the contract is contingent on that, but there are so many variables... I've talked to 4 loan officers over the past month, and 2 say I can get a loan no prob at all, and the other 2 say maybe, maybe not.  I dunno who to believe!  But I have (you guessed it) a Christian loan officer so hopefully she'll work hard on my behalf. 

I have one last big ole debt that I haven't paid off, and I'm most worried about that... my debt-to-credit ratio is pretty high.  I'm gonna call them today and ask if they'll take it off my credit report, and in exchange after I get the mortgage they can put a lien against my house.  Otherwise, I kinda doubt I can get approved.  Then if I do get approved, I have to get $5K in 3 weeks before closing. :sigh:

anyhow.. pls. pray for me. the irony is,  the ppl. I owe money to are under state authority.. and if I had a car payment they would HAVE to forgive the debt!  But.. I can't figure out how I'm supposed to get a car right now, this week, while still leaving enough money for myself to close.  ackkkk. it's so frustrating.. the more you spend, the less debt you have.. no fair!
 
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