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Sometimes I wonder anymore, if there is a god, and is he trying to tell me something? This year, I've allowed too many toxic people into my life, as bf's and friends. I have been working on myself in this regard, so this stops happening...but, it's a work in progress. I need help, I can't do this in my own strength anymore. I want to be left alone by deceitful people who only wish to use me, for whatever their reasons.

I ask that you pray for me, for protection, for whatever you think may help this situation. I left Christianity four years ago, and identify as an atheist most days. But this situation, may cause me to pray again.

I don't know. But, I thank you in advance for any prayers you can offer for me.
 

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Sometimes I wonder anymore, if there is a god, and is he trying to tell me something? This year, I've allowed too many toxic people into my life, as bf's and friends. I have been working on myself in this regard, so this stops happening...but, it's a work in progress. I need help, I can't do this in my own strength anymore. I want to be left alone by deceitful people who only wish to use me, for whatever their reasons.

I ask that you pray for me, for protection, for whatever you think may help this situation. I left Christianity four years ago, and identify as an atheist most days. But this situation, may cause me to pray again.

I don't know. But, I thank you in advance for any prayers you can offer for me.

Ok, Deidre. :prayer: I pray for your peace of mind and heart.

Peace
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Lord please remove all toxic people from her life. May people see her as a person worthy of all respect and to be treated with Dignity.

May she be an instrument to lead people to live better lives.

Please give her the ability to know who her true friends are. Grant that she will not be overly suspicious or cynical but at the same time recognizes when a person is being sincere.

Please lead her to happpiness and many healthy relationships and many smiles, laughter, and joy. And after that lead her to even greater joy in paradise with the Angels and Saints.

Protecter her and shield her from all evil influences including those that are preternatural or unseen

In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Just be careful not to misjudge because I know of a circumstance where I cared deeply about a person, and was a true and loyal friend, who never would want to hurt that person but only make them happy and be a positive force in their life. And gave that person more attention than any other person in my life including relatives. And sacrificed more for that person than any other friendship I ever tried to make work

Yet this person repeatedly accussed me of being a sociopath that wanted to hurt them and others and ended the friendship with many false accusations and said she didn't want anything to do with me ever again.. It hurt very much.
 
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Ok, Deidre. :prayer: I pray for your peace of mind and heart.

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Oh thank you so much! :)

Lord please remove all toxic people from her life. May people see her as a person worthy of all respect and to be treated with Dignity.

May she be an instrument to lead people to live better lives.

Please give her the ability to know who her true friends are. Grant that she will not be overly suspicious or cynical but at the same time recognizes when a person is being sincere.

Please lead her to happpiness and many healthy relationships and many smiles, laughter, and joy. And after that lead her to even greater joy in paradise with the Angels and Saints.

Protecter her and shield her from all evil influences including those that are preternatural or unseen

In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Just be careful not to misjudge because I know of a circumstance where I cared deeply about a person, and was a true and loyal friend, who never would want to hurt that person but only make them happy and be a positive force in their life. And gave that person more attention than any other person in my life including relatives. And sacrificed more for that person than any other friendship I ever tried to make work

Yet this person repeatedly accussed me of being a sociopath that wanted to hurt them and others and ended the friendship with many false accusations and said she didn't want anything to do with me ever again.. It hurt very much.

Are you a wizard? ^_^

This is the best advice ever. Thank you for your prayer - it is really something.
:)
 
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I greatly appreciate everyone's thoughts and prayers.

Today, I had an epiphany about this one particular person. The longer I've known this person, the more I see...he only cares about himself. He pretends to care about me and the friendship, but it's only as it relates to himself. I've seen him on other forums, always ends up the ring leader telling tall tales...tales I never knew, as his 'supposed' friend.

I'm relieved and happy I asked for prayers here. I think the answer came to me today. I always thought it was me and my trust issues, but no. This person used me, but what he doesn't know is I cared about him, despite his flaws. It's a shame that he didn't appreciate my friendship. But, my friendship is special when I give it, and I won't ever feel bad from walking away from someone who uses me.

Maybe God does exist...and maybe he does work in mysterious ways. I didn't expect this epiphany today.

Thanks all! Happy holiday week! :hug:
 
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Good for you; praise God!
Onward from here ~ stronger.
Be blessed :pray:

Yes! :)

Perhaps evidence of a god for someone who stopped believing like me, is when he works all things for my good. Even though I stopped believing.
 
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Oh thank you so much! :)



Are you a wizard? ^_^

This is the best advice ever. Thank you for your prayer - it is really something.
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Why thank you very much :)

No not a wizard. Just someone who has seen a situation like you are describing and it breaks my heart.

I would like to ask for prayer as well for the opposite reasons.

Somebody keeps falsely accusing me. Someone I love very much and care about deeply. This person has made many false accusations and admits that they push people away who love them and that she is afraid of love.

I was able to get her to see the truth many times and I proved many of her suspicions and false accusations wrong many times.

But in the end she will have nothing to do with me and claims I hurt her terribly. Yet I know that what really hurt her was the lies she believed about me and not what I know to be true.

She began telling me all the intentions of my heart and mind which I know to be true. She began to believe in her psychic powers and say I was lying to her all the time.

Like...I would simply tell her I have to go...im busy. She said you'r lying you're lying...you just don't like me and don't want to talk but wont admit it. Yet produced no basis for it.

Then she told me I was doing shady criminal things with the people I was living with and lying about my living situations. Yet had no evidence whatsoever.

THen I lost my phone and she told me I was lying about losing the phone because I didn't want to talk to her. Then I had a conversion from being an unbeliever to being a believer and she said I lied to her about that. So many of her accusations had no basis but her own belief in her gut feelings and psychic powers.

Then she accussed me no less then ten times of being other people online that I wasn't. Then she told me I intended to hurt her when I only intended to make her smile, laugh, be at ease, and happy and be there to listen to her and be her loyal friend.

Then she said I was a sociopath. Yet often times...just hours before this...she would be telling me I was so awesome and brought so much joy to her heart and was a true friend and that she hoped we would always be friends.

Well...eventually she ended the relationship entirely with more false accusations. And now she just thinks I am one more guy in her life who duped her and wanted to hurt her.

At one point she kept saying...this time I have proof you lied to me. I asked her over and over again to present that proof. She said...I can't present the proof because it would humiliate me. Yet I know her well enough that any shred of evidence she had for anything she would provide and she simply wasn't providing it because it didn't exist which I know to be true because I didn't lie to her and I KNOW IT!

My heart bleeds for this person who I care deeply about. Please pray that I will deal with this situation the right way and pray that she would see the truth from the fiction.

Thank you and God bless!
 
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Well, the person I speak of...

He acts like I'm stupid. lol I literally saw him with my own eyes, fooling everyone on another forum we belong to...and then he turns around and says to me...he was doing nothing wrong.

If there is a god, may he help him. For I've tried, but I can't. We have to help ourselves, also. I don't think he wants help, he just likes being a ring leader ...and saying anything to get attention. Even if it's not true. It's cringe-worthy behavior, and when I read it...I realize, wow, I don't know this man at all. He tells me one thing...and then tells everyone else another.

I have no energy for someone like this. No desire to extend my heart anymore to someone like this. So much more I could say, but at this point...I want it behind me.

Good luck to you, Pope.
 
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Yea...maybe your definition of lying and dishonesty is different than hers. That happens.

If I see someone creating false accounts and pretending to fool my friends...that's dishonesty.

I don't know what to say about your situation. But sometimes if you are so bent on being right, you might lose a good friend because you're unwilling to see the forest through the trees.

Just some advice.
 
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Yes! :)

Perhaps evidence of a god for someone who stopped believing like me, is when he works all things for my good. Even though I stopped believing.

Even when you don't believe in Him, He still believes in you and will never leave you. Sometimes He allows difficulties to come into our lives to bring us closer to Him. This situation has brought you to seek His help.
 
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Even when you don't believe in Him, He still believes in you and will never leave you. Sometimes He allows difficulties to come into our lives to bring us closer to Him. This situation has brought you to seek His help.

Oh, I haven't seen you in forever. :) Thank you for this. And I hope you are well, too. Merry Christmas. :hug:
 
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Oh, I haven't seen you in forever. :) Thank you for this. And I hope you are well, too. Merry Christmas. :hug:

Thank you, Deidre! Merry Christmas to you too! :wave:
 
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