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Sorry, I do not have suggestions on how to deceive your parents. It sounds like you have an eating disorder and need help. I suggest instead of hiding your eating disordered behavior, you sit down and ask your parents for help. If you cannot ask them, then ask to see your family doctor and get weighed there and tell him/her that you are not eating and why. If you are losing weight and not eating because of anorexia, you need specialized therapeutic help.

Stop hiding from the truth and get help. This is not something to play with. It is a matter of life and death.

PM me if you need to talk privately.

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crazylittlep said:
i have only not eaten for 25 hours. it isnt bad, i just want to be normal

You're normal the way you are. The thing about what the world tells you is normal is actually abnormal. Please go eat something. If you're doing this because of health reasons I suggest diet but never starvation.

What are you afraid of? Being scorned? Jesus went through that and far worst. If the world would laugh at you rest assured that God won't and if God won't so won't I and all the God fearing Christians won't too.
 
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crazylittlep said:
I am trying to figure out ways to keep my parents from finding ot i am not eating. anyone have suggestions??????

You will find nobody on this forum who will send you suggestions or tips. You know you aren't eating, you're scared of being found out, obviously you must know it's not quite normal to be doing this. Get some help, talk to someone, before you end up way over your head. You're young - you've got a lot of time in front of you, don't waste it by struggling with an ED - many people on here will tell you how much it sucks having to spend twenty or so years struggling, because you will start struggling, once you realise you don't want this anymore, but it will have control over you and you will find it so hard to stop. So try to stop now, while you still can, while you are in the frame of mind to post on forums - that is, after all, a cry for help, even if you don't realise it. :hug:
 
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