Physical Attraction with love sight.

[wolflady]

Hi everyone,

I ask you on question about physical attraction with love sight. For example, one man attract his physical to the beautiful lady. A beautiful lady did attract him with love sight. He and she are really attract each other and talk a chatting too. He and she feel to fall in loving each other. They can really love sight to be together. Is it easy to bond each other?

I noticed a white man and woman can be bonding each other, but too easy in relationship. Some black, asian, indian, and other race can't be bonding and it's very difficult in relationship with white woman for marriage. Why they can't promise with white woman for marriage? How?

That's my thinking so why?

Christy

 

[DaveKerwin]

If I am understanding you correctly, you are asking how physicall attraction works with love. I believe that it starts with attraction and develops into love. I don't think a person can fall in love at first sight. I think love is something that develops over time. You can be infatuated with a person when you first meet them, but I would not think love is that quick. Did that answer your question or was I talking about a different topic?

 

[Rols]

Hi everyone,

I ask you on question about physical attraction with love sight. For example, one man attract his physical to the beautiful lady. A beautiful lady did attract him with love sight. He and she are really attract each other and talk a chatting too. He and she feel to fall in loving each other. They can really love sight to be together. Is it easy to bond each other?

I noticed a white man and woman can be bonding each other, but too easy in relationship. Some black, asian, indian, and other race can't be bonding and it's very difficult in relationship with white woman for marriage. Why they can't promise with white woman for marriage? How?

That's my thinking so why?

Christy

Dave, I think what she is trying to say is that is love at first sight and physcial instant attraction possible, even if a couple eventually and genuinely fall in love later? I think it is possible for it to be initially physical attraction or 'love at first sight', though I think at first sight one can't really call it 'love' per say, it's usually just an attraction, and then real love can come after that, or the couple can discover that the initial attraction wasn't love at all.

And I think the second aspect of her question on race is that, in her opinion it's very easy for two people of the same race to bond with each other because they are easily physically attracted (at least in her opinion). But my answer to that is it dosen't have to be difficult for people of different races to 'bond' as long as it is genuine love, of course cultural differences on the other hand may be a trial and challenge in the relationship, but with God all things are possible. And ironically on the race issue, I think couples of different races who are together, never really started out as 'love at first sight' or 'attraction' at first sight cases. But actually grow to genuinely loove each other

 

[Rols]

This is not to say that there is no physical attraction in relationships and that love is all. Part of my loving my boyfriend is because I am actually physically (chemistry, or whatever they call it these days) attracted to him, otherwise I wouldn't be with him. A bit of both really!

 

[wolflady]

1. What's the love at the sight?
2. What's the physical attraction?
3. What's the love in the cultural differences?

Let me know. I want a meaning from above. My writing is very terrible!!! I'm really sorry because my expression explain to you from my opinion too much.

Christy

 

[wolflady]

I think a physical attraction and love sight is both on same time. I assume so that you not make a sense on my bad grammar. I'm really sorry.

Christy

 

[da_user]

Your thinking is skewed. How on earth do you imagine/think human life got to the stage it's at today without cross-cultural bonding? The future of the species depends on breeding out weaknesses and breeding in strengths - and ultimately that means a mixed race society.

 

[wolflady]

hello???

 

[SirFei]

Hey Christy,

I will try to answer you questions, if I can, but first I'm going to rewrite the questions to see if I understand them correctly... Let me know if I'm correct.

1.) Is there "love" at just seeing someone else?
2.) What part of "love" does physical attraction come in?
3.) Can "love" work with different cultures/races?

I may be off, but please let me know. I am sorry that I can't understand you completely or better, and I hope I haven't offended you. Please forgive me if I have. If there is anything that you don't understand of what I say, please ask! I will gladly try and rewrite my answer here...

First question: You're right... your first two questions are quite near to each other, and I could answer them both right here. I don't believe there can be true love between two people at first sight, first off; however, infatuation (that feeling of butterflies in your stomach) can happen. Physical characteristics are usually the first thing we notice about someone, and then we're driven to know more about that person, or questions we want to have answered: What do they believe in? What kind of characteristics do they have? What is their personality like?

This is quite normal to feel that schoolish feeling when seeing someone you're attracted to. God made us this way--attracted to the opposite sex or gender. Now, the second question: physical attraction is definitely part of love. Example: I don't think I could love my fiance without loving who she is COMPLETELY. She may not look like a model, but that doesn't matter to me. Her smile matters to me, and when she smiles, it shines brighter than the sun. Note, love should never be based on ONLY physical attraction. If you're with someone just because of what they look like or if they're the most popular person around, you're not in love. That's infatuation. Another example: I love my fiance's personality. She can get angry at times like anyone else, but the way she deals with issues and her attitude towards life is what I also love about her. There are so many different things I could say that I love about her--this is how you will know that the "love" you feel is greater than what you see.

Thirdly... Simply answer: Yes, different cultures/races can mix, but it depends on the person's heart.

Again, I'm not sure if this is what all you're asking... Sorry if I missinterpreted..

 

[wolflady]

I hate a writing as hell! I feel so tired and frustration!

Christy

 

[wolflady]

You're very right! SirFei That's it! I did say same thing. Oh man! I hate a writing as hell! My first language is american sign language and second as english language.

Christy