Pen pal support

[angels347]

Hi

I would like a pen pal who could give me some marrital advice or would like to do a bible study by email. I am in a unique situation with my spouse. He is a Christian, but has a problem with jealousy so he he is controlling. he likes to have me by his side all of the time and I cant go anywhere alone or he will be very upset. Does anyone know anyone else like this and what is your advice? I am never leaving him because we love each other very much. I jsut need to know how to build trust in him. I dont want anyone writing me and telling me to leave him. I just need some loving support. Thank you.

 

[amie]

Hi,
have you tried maybe going to a christian counselor to see if you could work on his insecurity...the fact that you can go no where without him, is an issue and should probably be discussed with someone...do the two of you talk about this problem often?
Love and blessings to you!
Amie

 

[MizDoulos]

Blessings and welcome, angels347!

In seeking advice, I have moved your thread to the Prayer, Advice & Praise forum.

 

[Jeannette]

Definately you need help, but it is not a reason to leave him.....
Trust is something that grows.
If there is a ladies meeting at church, it may be an easy way of 'going' somewhere.
If you do it gently, and be very sweet, he hopefully will start to let go a little.
otherwise try and get him to talk to the pastor about the situation.