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Peculiar attractions... ?

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missju said:
i'd never date anyone who expected/demanded me to either work and have a career or be a stay at home mother...
i think i'd decide WITH him on that topic! none of this assumption stuff for me!

I think there comes a point when demands on a wife are necessary, though, as if she starts to not take a shower every three weeks or doesn't brush her teeth at least 72 hours before kissing me. I guess I assume too much, EH?
 
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I'm not sure I have anything too far out there, though I will admit I find a lot of girls who don't have tans quite attractive, and some that I've known who've gone for the dark tan look to become less attractive. Though some girls look good with tans too.
 
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tall, church goin guys that are smart. not necessarily book smart but wise and can discuss a wide range of subjects. they have to be clean, too. i cant stand bad breath, nasty clothes, dirty fingernails and just a general sloppy appearance. for me the deal breaker would be sports obsession, speed metal music, and misogynistic behavior.
 
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goat37 said:
Any of you have any strange things that you are attracted to?

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Does anyone else have anything that would be considered abnormal that they find themselves drawn to?

Hmm... I don't think these things are "odd," but perhaps some women might not find the same attraction to them:


* Voice -- I really am a voice person. I love hearing other people talk sometimes, but to befriend or date guys whose voices are just "yum" is great. I can't really explain what it sounds like, either. It has to be deep though, but not like the bass from Boyz II Men.

* Hands -- Strong, but a bit soft. I like vein-y (but not overly vein-y) hands on a man. Bigger than mine, but not monstrous or overwhelming (actually met a guy like that and I was always like :o when I saw him).

* Legs -- I actually really like men's legs. I'm much more versatile on this one, too. I've seen really thick, muscular legs that made me but also thinner (yet still a bit on the muscular side) legs that made me

* Random other ones I don't feel comfortable sharing here.
 
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Another old thread resurrected from thread heaven.

Hmmm let's see....I like emo guys complete with skinny jeans, band t'shirts and converse.

Basically if he's a musician I'm in a heap o' trouble!

I've also always had a thing for baseball players and cowboys.
 
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Facial hair on a guy. As long as it's neat and trimmed.

Dark hair, like brown, black, or red.

Bright colored eyes. I LOVE blues and greens.


Hmmm...that's about all I can think of right now...but I'd just thought I'd clarify, these are NOT absolutes. I like the things listed above, but it's what God wills that wins in the end. Even if I get a guy who is completely opposite to what I listed, I'd be content with whoever God decides to put in my path (that's IF He even does so...I've always had a funny feeling I'd be a spinster, but only God knows).
 
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