I had a discussion a few days ago with a friend who believes at the very least a pastor (thats what he calls preachers) should be provided a house. I asked him where in the bible was that found. Now as a disclaimer, he is motivated by the fact that he aspires to be a "pastor".
This is something very important I painfully learnt. Never ever ask a pastor who is getting paid from the church about money. It is a conflict of interest. There is a clear incentive for the pastor to downright lie in order to continue receiving money.
This applies not only to your own pastor where you go to church, but even asking a pastor of another church where you don't attend. This even includes asking a pastor of another denomination that you do not attend.
Do my words sound overly harsh, critical and cynical? Well, gather up around children, let me tell you all a story. Pull up your chairs and listen up.
In my second last church, my pastors were big on "tithes and offerings" and even went so far as to say that if you didn't give at least your mandatory 10% to the church, you were not really a Christian and would go to Hell.
This church eventually floundered, and the pastors transferred to another church where they were not in any leadership position anymore-just ordinary congregation members. The pastors gave up any aspiration for leadership, and resumed secular jobs.
I caught up with them after a few years, and I was very interested to know what their belief was on giving to the church-now that they were in a position of giving rather than receiving.
Well, surprise, surprise. The former pastors had a change of heart, and decided now that Biblical NT giving is optional, according to what is in their heart.
How very convenient. The husband even admitted that he pushed the tithing line in his church because of the struggling finances, as it was always a small church.
So the moral of the story is this; It is a clear conflict of interest to ask a pastor, who receives his money from the church, about giving. The answer is most likely to be a lie.
It would be like asking Dracula about giving blood!
My dear dad is a real hard core fundamentalist Christian. Very religious, very conservative, very fire and brimstone. Yet even he says that pastors are a bunch of crooks when it comes to money.
Can I hear an Amen?