// Opposite sex attraction

[_sunshinegirl]

What in your eyes is visually appealing in the opposite sex?

• bell bottoms on guys [*if* you can rock 'em]
• dreads
• hip bones
• 5'7 +
• silver

Now this is not meant to be taken as 'what' you look for in a mate, but just general things that you find pleasing //

 

[goat37]

I may be a bit strange, but the eyes and teeth stand out to me more than just about anything else. Nothing better than having those hypnotic eyes and that perfect smile...

 

[_sunshinegirl]

I may be a bit strange, but the eyes and teeth stand out to me more than just about anything else. Nothing better than having those hypnotic eyes and that perfect smile...

I've heard that about eyes & I can agree with you on teeth, which is funny because I don't have the best 'teeth' but they must look clean.

 

[Ginsu]

Height.. 6ft is perfect.


Yeah thats about it. haha

 

[goat37]

I also believe that commercial when it says "Scent is the strongest sense tied to memory"

Along with the eyes and teeth, her scent has to be amazing too... Best one ever for me kinda smelled like egyptian cotton <drool>

 

[waterbear]

Face:
High/prominent cheekbones, large eyes, pouty lips, nice white teeth, narrow chin.

Hair:
Shoulder-length, thick, straight or wavey.

Body:
Either a thin build or a curvy build. Either should not have flab/cellulite nor be overly muscular (either bulk or definition). Height doesn't matter.

Complexion:
White (esp. northern european) or Asian (esp. far eastern).

Other:
Modest attire, minimal piercings, minimal jewelry, minimal tatoos, not too much makeup.

 

[_sunshinegirl]

Face:
High/prominent cheekbones, large eyes, pouty lips, nice white teeth, narrow chin.

Hair:
Shoulder-length, thick, straight or wavey.

Body:
Either a thin build or a curvy build. Either should not have flab/cellulite nor be overly muscular (either bulk or definition). Height doesn't matter.

Complexion:
White (esp. northern european) or Asian (esp. far eastern).

Other:
Modest attire, minimal piercings, minimal jewelry, minimal tatoos, not too much makeup.

I believe you know what you want or desire.

 

[invisiblebabe]

5'7" + eh? Wheeee, I'm classified as tall!!

Anyway, to answer the post, yes, I like guys taller than myself. Bell bottoms = icky, dreads = ok on some guys but not my particular style in what I look for, silver = cool so long as not taken to an extreme. I prefer no piercings/tattoos.

 

[TriptychR]

I find girls with glasses appealing. What can I say?

 

[_sunshinegirl]

I find girls with glasses appealing. What can I say?

Interesting.
Seeing as how most girls are uncomfotable in glasses because of what other people think [[they look icky]].

 

[Wild_Fan4Christ]

I think you have forgot about the most important thing in a person...Personality and what is on the inside from the heart not on the outside. The woman could have the most drop dead gorgeous looks but no personality at all. No thanks, sorry.

Now, it is also important to have other attributes on the outside like great eyes, beautiful smile, long or short hair, about 5'5, not too overweight, but also not skinny, just somewhere in the middle showing that they take care of their body.

But personality is the most important in my book and how she cares for others

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Alrighty, here goes nothing:

The biggest attraction I have towards a memeber of the opposite sex is a true man of God. There is nothign sexier then a man who loves the Lord with all his mind body and soul. Good sence of humour, gotta love music and loves life in general.

If we are talking about physical apperances (which I think we are here)
He has to smile alot. I love guys who have a great smile and great teeth. Good hair, kinda shaggy is hot... depends. I like clean shaven. A little stubble once and awhile can be hot, but not much.

Taller then me, but not too tall. Perferably around 5-10/6' tall would be great. Im not overly tall so I dont want him towering over me. But certianly not as short as me.
Medium built. I dont like skinny guys... I wouldnt want to break him.
GOOD DRESSER. The guy's gotta have style. Oh and good shoe sense. I like guys in jeans and a nice shirt, nice jacket nice shoes... There is nothign sexier then a man who knows how to dress... or in nice dresspants and as shirt oh wow.... or on the flip side, Im a big fan of surfer boys...

If he wears glasses, they have to be nice ones. I dotn care either way if they are glasses or contacts... but if he does wear glasses, they have to be somewhat stylish and suit his sense of style and personality.

But in general I find family guys really attractive. A guy who thinks family is important, and is good to his family is a-ok in my books. I have a small family, so it would be great if he had a big one... who is willing to take me in as their own lol

Oh and another thign I find really attractive is someone who is a true gentleman. Opens car doors and shuts them for me... hold open doors... orders when the server comes to take our meal order.. all these thigns are really sexy.

So um yah.... Just a small list

 

[_sunshinegirl]

I think you have forgot about the most important thing in a person...Personality and what is on the inside from the heart not on the outside. The woman could have the most drop dead gorgeous looks but no personality at all. No thanks, sorry.

Now, it is also important to have other attributes on the outside like great eyes, beautiful smile, long or short hair, about 5'5, not too overweight, but also not skinny, just somewhere in the middle showing that they take care of their body.

But personality is the most important in my book and how she cares for others

Oh I know that, I have already made a post about that, and I totally understand that the inside is more important than the outside anyday, because looks will fade and beauty is fleeting.

 

[Wild_Fan4Christ]

I also forgot to add in my post that she must be strong in her faith and for her love of God. A woman who has the same convictions as me is a plus in wanting to raise a family with faith.

 

[fishstix]

What in your eyes is visually appealing in the opposite sex?

• bell bottoms on guys [*if* you can rock 'em]
• dreads
• hip bones
• 5'7 +
• silver

Now this is not meant to be taken as 'what' you look for in a mate, but just general things that you find pleasing //

Visually appealing? Well, I guess it would be the opposite of what I find visually disgusting or not appealing. So that would mean a person who is
a) not smoking
b) not goth style
c) not loaded with tattoos or body piercings

Of course some of those types may be nice people once one gets to know them...

 

[stonetoflesh]

What in your eyes is visually appealing in the opposite sex?

• bell bottoms on guys [*if* you can rock 'em]
• dreads
• hip bones
• 5'7 +
• silver

Now this is not meant to be taken as 'what' you look for in a mate, but just general things that you find pleasing //

rock the bells!!! I still have a couple pairs in my closet, they're pretty ragged and patched up though... I guess that makes me 3/5, since I don't have dreads and I'm not made of silver!

 

[JohnnyV]

I am partial to eyes myself. I also like it if the woman knows how to wear eye liner(Kinda weird I know). A good smile is a plus and atleast shoulder length hair, Im not too into the short hair on women.

 

[stonetoflesh]

I agree with other posters that what's on the inside is what really counts-- especially where her relationship with God is concerned-- but there's certainly something to be said for visual appeal.
I used to have a thing for art-school hippie chicks with dreads. Then I remembered that I'm not remotely cool or artsy enough for those girls to give me the time of day and came back to reality....

 

[collegekid]

the eyes... the first thiong i notice about a girl is her eyes.

you can tell alot about her if you can look into her eyes.

 

[Grimace]

Nice eyes (any color), a warm and ready smile, and short hair (nothing touching the collar or below) are some of the things I like.