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One year on ...

AirForceTeacher

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Well, we've been back together for a year. A cross-country move, a refinance, house hunting, Christmas, 8 birthdays, an anniversary, 3 different ADD medicines, a promotion and a Star Wars movie. A lot can happen in 12 months!

I've kind of avoided this place, too many bad memories - not of y'all, but of the period. We're doing better, but it's not all peaches and cream. Which is good, because I don't really like peaches and cream. I'm more of a chocolate pudding kind of guy.

Those who have separated and come back together - how is it going for you? Do you think about the separation? What does it do to you? I freak out a little when I think about it. I can't go to that place.

How is the relationship? Is the trust repaired, or just duct-taped a little? I feel like one of those cats that's always walking around shivering, jumpy and easily spooked. "Is this the week she asks me to move out again?" "Am I doing OK?" "Would she and the kids have been better off staying apart?"