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One Month To Move!!!

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The landlord called the person I am renting a room from today that I have ONE MONTH TO MOVE OUT. At least that is what the my house mate said. I don't know if his girlfriend had anything to do with it, I assume she did, since she doesn't like the fact I am living here.

Well I guess I'll be on the streets unless I get a job REAL SOON or a room from someone who OWNS the HOUSE at least until I am able to afford a place of my own.

For one it is very hard to find a place for anyone to a point, but I will tell you it is even harder for me since I have a record that won't soon disappear. And most every Apartment complex does ask for criminal records and they don't care if you changed or not. This has been getting to be the same for JOBS as well.

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:hug: Tag, I'm so sorry. That really stinks. I had a landlord pull that same thing on me several years ago. 30 days is usually not enough time. If the apartment complexes want to run checks, have you thought about renting a small house? Sometimes the owners just put ads in the paper and rent to someone without doing all that stuff. Often if you have first and last months rent, they're happy.

Praying for you. :pray:
 
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CeCe said:
:hug: Tag, I'm so sorry. That really stinks. I had a landlord pull that same thing on me several years ago. 30 days is usually not enough time. If the apartment complexes want to run checks, have you thought about renting a small house? Sometimes the owners just put ads in the paper and rent to someone without doing all that stuff. Often if you have first and last months rent, they're happy.

Praying for you. :pray:
Thank you for your concern.

Well I first off I don't have any money. I have $ 0.69 in my bank account. Secondly I think the person I am renting the room from, His girlfriend has told me in so many words that she was planning on using the room I am in for herself. She was KICKED out of the place she was living in a little over a month ago. So tell me if 2+2=4 or not. I have been living here since last July.

At this point if I am offered a place to stay any where I would move there. But I reckon it would only be me since I don't have any money to move my stuff. I do want to bring my computer though. I don't know what to do. I really don't. Yes, prayer is the number one thing to do.

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Shamash Of Yeshua,

I'm sorry. :( And lately you've been sounding like you've been feeling better.

I will pray that you find a new place to live. Keep in mind that you are still wanted here at CF. I think I can speak for at least some others that we care about you. God does love you, and He sees past your faults, even when the rest of the world appears to be against you. Remember, you are still a new creation, regardless of what others believe.
 
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Thank you psycmajor,

In one month I will not have the internet for I don't know how long.
I just remembered the person I am renting the room from said that the landlord called him at his work. Why would the landlord know his work number? He has just started there not long ago. I do feel this is a plot by his girlfriend to get me out of the house. I guess I will call the landlord myself as soon as I can find the number and talk with him myself.

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avoicecrying said:
Just curious if you are a Messianic Jew do you ascribe to the belief in a trinity which flies in the face of DT 6:4
I am a Non-Jew but since I am grafted in I suppose I could be ;)

What does this have to do with this thread? We serve ONE who is YHWH. Yeshua is YHWH's Salvation. Yeshua is YHWH's SON. Yeshua is One with YHWH as WE are ONE with with Him. Ruach HaKodesh is the Spirit of YHWH.

So tell me more of what you are trying to say from Devarim 6:4?

[size=-1]6:4[/size]Hear, Yisra'el: the LORD is our God; the LORD is one

Oh I see now :D
How about the following on who is the ONE who Saves:
Isa 12:3; 45:17; 46:13
Jer 3:23
Lam 3:26
Jonah 2:9
Mic 7:7
Hab 3:18


May the peace that transends all understanding be with you,

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I guess I am pretty new to this thread stuff . You are right that it has nothing to do with " Gotta Move " . Maybe I was unintentionally taking tour mind off the subject. Before I knew THE LORD I lived in my van, the beach, the street, and then a homeless shelter. By the mercies of God I now have job, house, wife, and two cats. My reason for bringing up the subject was that the vast majority of professing Christians believe in a Triune deity that they have been sold down the river to and have been instructed to label " oneness believers " as cultic. The interpretation of the New Testament cannot be true when it contradicts the Old Test. People who have made private interpretation of the scripture constructed the doctrine of the trinity in 325 AD at a council of Nicea. They formed a church whos name means UNIVERSAL because a pluralistic view of God was more acceptable. What followed was a period of time known as the Dark Ages a nightmare on the face of the earth with numerous atrocities commited in the name of religion. We can't just bury our heads and pretend that it never happened although I will try to be more gentle when administering such truths from now on. Anyone that I have shocked or offended by my abrasive approach please forgive me I only do it from a heart of love and a true righteous indignation against the perpetrators of such acts.
 
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It sounds like 2+2 to me as well. :( People can be selfish and mean sometimes. I'm just so sorry you are going through all this. :cry:

I don't know you personally, so I'm not sure how to approach this. I by no means intend to insult you, but have you thought about seeing what type of assistance is available through the government or the Salvation Army, etc? At least temporarily until you can get back on your feet (and you will) I just hate the idea of you having nowhere to go. That's just wrong IMO. There are a lot of people here who care about you Tag. Hopefully someone will come up with some viable idea. :hug:
 
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Thank you all for your prayer support. Keep me up in prayer. :clap:

Can someone clarify what the following sounds like in a note given to me by her boyfriend: Keep in mind she professes to be a Christian.
Wednesday - Out
9AM - 9PM
Thursday - Out
9AM - 9PM

One entire night for (her boyfriends name) & I's privacy.
Tuesday or Thursday

When the curtain is across doorway to kitchen - Do not enter

Please leave your door closed as much as possible because it smells.
Thank you,
her name
For the past couple months I haven't been taking a shower everyday because I didn't want to use any more water then needed. I would take a shower at least once a week. The reason was to save money since I haven't had any to give for Utilities which run about $400 every two months.
One day I walked into the kitchen to get something to eat and then she just started slamming things around. We don't talk to each other. I can see in her eyes every time I look that she HATES ME. I explained some of the details in previous posts. Then now she is DEMANDING things from me when she dispises me. It is hard enough for me to deal with my problems let alone her so-called problem with me. It is hard to look at someone with respect if they look at you like your DIRT. So tell me how forgiveness works again. Just kidding.

I will be so happy to be living away from her it makes me just want to just move now. But you know I won't be able to until I find a job and I hope soon.

Shalom,
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Youch. Thats pretty bad. Doesn't sound like there is any room for persuasion there.

What about your roommate though? How does he handle her attitude and the lack of domestic tranquility this causes?

BTW, I just left a similar situation to this a few months ago. The only thing in my case to be done was indeed to leave.
 
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fieldmouse3 said:
Praying that this all gets straightened out for you!
Thank you feildmouse3 and psycmajor for praying as well as all others.
psycmajor said:
Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. It must be such a burden to have someone actively show such strong resentment toward you. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me.

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Well for one I live here and every time she comes home I am here. I will speculate that she thinks I am just staying at home. I have been really thinking of how YHWH is using this to temper me into the tool He wants me to be. I for one am not one to react very postive in my looks at someone who is looking at me and acting toward me in a Non-Christian way when they claim to be someone that claims Yeshua as their master. In all situations that I come across I do look in the mirror at myself when I make a judgement at how someone is reacting to me. What I mean is I look at how am I treating that person and how have I treated that person. Well I haven't done anything to her to cause her to be looking and treating me like I shouldn't exist in this house. Maybe walking into the kitchen to get something to eat or drink caused her to fly off the wall in the note she wrote and had her boyfriend give me, i.e., THE DEMANDS w/ Thank you on the end. I close up toward someone when they treat me with disrespect so some of the fault is mine. I wasn't able to collect unemployment for around two months which might be part of it. And another one might be I told her boyfriend I am not selling him this computer but I will sell him my other one. I don't hardly come out of my room at all ever since she moved in and made remarks. Before she was here I would stay in my room with the door closed except on hot days, and also except when I had to use the bathroom or food or water and sometimes orange juice.

Talmid HaYarok said:
Youch. Thats pretty bad. Doesn't sound like there is any room for persuasion there.

What about your roommate though? How does he handle her attitude and the lack of domestic tranquility this causes?

BTW, I just left a similar situation to this a few months ago. The only thing in my case to be done was indeed to leave.
I finally got my unemployment reopened and had enough contacts to report to recieve a check, before I didn't have enough so couldn't recieve a check and my file was closed. The last time I reopened it I didn't have enough to report but the next week I did but this time I called and explained that to the person at the unemployment office and he reopened my file for the week before last so I could report for last week and finally recieved a check once again. For the last two months I haven't had any money so it has gotten very difficult. I bought a bus pass so travel won't be so hard to do as before. An aunt of mine is sending me money and so is someone else. How quickly YHWH, blessed be His Name, works through Yeshua of course.

I talked with the person that first worked on my truck and he will be picking it up to finish what he started over 6 months ago.

Yesterday I decided to let her have their time together without me around for a night. I planned on spending the night with my aunt and uncle that live 34 miles away but don't have a phone. Well I rode the 34 miles saving the $10, but spent $1 for cherries :yum: on the way from someone from Arkansas selling them on the side of the road, but you know, THEY Weren't living there anymore !:eek: LOL boy were my legs tired when I got there but so happy to be there when the person that came to the door wasn't either of them. So I rode back and stopped by Anthony who was selling the cherries and helped him take down his canopy and signs, WOW, he gave me $5 :clap: for helping and then I rode to south Tacoma and caught a bus to the persons house that was the person that is going to fix my truck and he wasn't home. So I rode down the hill and hung out for about a half an hour with some people who let me live with them when I couldn't find a place, they left but I could stay because there was someone else that lived there, but he ended up going some where as well :sigh:. So I went up the street to Denny's and ordered some hot tea with milk and sugar. It was about 9pm. I locked my bike and removed my airpump and when I walked in a person I used to work with(He was a Equipment operator and I was the groundman on lots of jobs in construction) was there. So I sat down next to him(He is also unemployed and has lost his house and all his belongings not too long ago) and we talked. Well the seat was out of sight of my bike, so I would get up once in a while and check it. After a while he left. I ordered oatmeal for breakfast and ate. A couple times I was checking my bike from the window I saw a couple people talking that were one empty space from my bike. I didn't think nothing of them. Then 4:28am came up while I was talking with someone, so I took off out the door unlocked my bike and started riding and when I went to sit down my seat was GONE!!! I went back to the door of Denny's on my bike and about that time two police officers were just leaving, so I told the first one coming out of the door and he said you have to give a statement to the Sgt. Well I was in a rush to get the 4:30am bus to get home so I said "I have to go" and then I told the workers there through the door what happened and then rode as fast as I could. I seen the bus in the distance as I was feeling where the nut and bolt that held the seat was missing. So I rode back to the spot where I locked my bike to find it and it wasn't there. SO I rode back quickly and when I got across the street the bus was just passing the bus stop and so I lifted my right hand to wave the bus to stop and accidently applied my front brake which immediately put me on my head. Good thing I was wearing a helmet!!! I finally got home about 6:20am.
All this so my roommates girlfriend can have some privacy with him. :angel:

Now I need a job so I can know where to look for a place to live. Keep up the Righteous Prayer.

May the peace that transcends all understanding be with you,

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