I kind of feel weird even more and more. I believe I do have a very bad problem with paranoia and fear. I found myself getting better but then it started coming back. I also have a problem with feeling like someone is behind me at night. I then will go in my bed and put my back against the wall and start praying. It goes away once my back is against the wall but then if I lay and try to go to sleep I get the feeling like someone walks up to my bed and gets closer and closer to me and I can't get to sleep because I have to keep opening my eyes. If my eyes are open I don't feel that way. My nighmares are starting to come back too. I don't want to have to start staying up all night again so I don't have nightmares. I don't even like going places because I'm too paranoid. I just don't know what to do because prayer helps at the time sometimes but it doesn't go away permanently. I don't want to do anything in life either. I can plan to do something but I'll never get it done.
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Try this, I think of praying like a phone call with God, just don't hang up the phone. I know it sound wierd but when I am scared (I get paranoid when it is dark and I hear noises) I just start praying until I fall asleep, I am sure that God doesn't mind. As far as anything further I would suggest counselling with your pastor.
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SteadyRock
- GOD is my ALL -
Have you tried asking God for a greater love for everyone. Perfect love casts out all fear! You need never be afraid anyway if you think about it because even if anything happens to you God will only give you what you can take. God is not out to harm you. He loves all of His people and will protect you.
'The LORD is my Light and my Salvation-
whom shalll I fear?
The LORD is the stronghold of my life-
of whom shall I be afraid?....
Though an army besiege me,
my heart will not fear;
though war break out against me,
even then will I be confident.'
Psalm 27v1+3
No fear! Don't worry sleep tight tonight knowing that God is right in your room! Watching and guarding you!
'The LORD is my Light and my Salvation-
whom shalll I fear?
The LORD is the stronghold of my life-
of whom shall I be afraid?....
Though an army besiege me,
my heart will not fear;
though war break out against me,
even then will I be confident.'
Psalm 27v1+3
No fear! Don't worry sleep tight tonight knowing that God is right in your room! Watching and guarding you!
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Get to a psychologist. You really need to seek help, please do. I don't want you to live in fear any longer. I will be praying for you. With love, Lauren
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silentpoet
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I agree, if it is effecting your life this much professional help may be in order. I pray that you will seek out some sort of help. The Lord will provide a way for you to see things in a better light. What you may need to do is to continuously remind yourself of the Good things God has done in your life.
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First of all, pray about it. Ask God to give you peaceful dreams and to protect you. You should probably also see a doctor as it is possible that you might need some medication. You may want to check out the Struggles and Recovery forum as well.
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I appreciate the replies. The thing too is that I can't say this to anyone off the computer. I feel too weird and am afraid of what they will think. 
I can't even imagine how my family would react if they knew I needed medication.
I can't even imagine how my family would react if they knew I needed medication.
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Can you get to a counsellor - someone with tertiary qualifications? I know sometimes it's difficult if you're young or broke, but the good ones (imo) will take someone on free or for a very low cost, just so the person gets what they need.
When it comes to medication - would you be embarrassed at having epilepsy and needing to take meds for it? It's a brain condition too! What's worse - living the way you are, or seeing what people think about needing to take medication for something (IF you need meds!)?
God bless - I hope you come up with a good solution.
When it comes to medication - would you be embarrassed at having epilepsy and needing to take meds for it? It's a brain condition too! What's worse - living the way you are, or seeing what people think about needing to take medication for something (IF you need meds!)?
God bless - I hope you come up with a good solution.
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jjj said:I appreciate the replies. The thing too is that I can't say this to anyone off the computer. I feel too weird and am afraid of what they will think.
Don't worry about your family, take care of yourself. You can do nothing but good by getting the help you need. You will be better able to serve those you love and you will be better able to show them love when you remove the cloud of fear.
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Hi JJJ
I want you to know that you are not alone in haveing these fealings of paranoia and fear many folk have the same fealings. So I woudnt think that something weird is happening to you and if you asked for help some would find you strange.
You didnt mention how long these fealings have been going on, dont let it go on any longer fear has a way of trapping you in if you think your issues are to farout to get help with.
Take a leap of faith just give it a chance and ask for professional help from your doctor, I am sure once you do this you will feal a lot of the fear lifted from you my friend.
I pray the Lord will give you the strengh to go and get help.
Blessings and goodwill to you.
I want you to know that you are not alone in haveing these fealings of paranoia and fear many folk have the same fealings. So I woudnt think that something weird is happening to you and if you asked for help some would find you strange.
You didnt mention how long these fealings have been going on, dont let it go on any longer fear has a way of trapping you in if you think your issues are to farout to get help with.
Take a leap of faith just give it a chance and ask for professional help from your doctor, I am sure once you do this you will feal a lot of the fear lifted from you my friend.
I pray the Lord will give you the strengh to go and get help.
Blessings and goodwill to you.
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I've been this way for some years. Could I overcome this with God? My family would find out and just think of me as a weirdo. I really don't want to see a doc
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SteadyRock
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God loves you and He wants you to be safe in Him! He doesn't want to see you sad like you sound now! If you will say to God 'I really want your kind of love and don't want to be afraid it drains me of energy and is not helping my walk with you! I need you my Lord help in my need!' God wants to see you live without fear and to be bold were ever you go for it shows the trust you have in God. I will pray for you!
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jjj said:I've been this way for some years. Could I overcome this with God? My family would find out and just think of me as a weirdo. I really don't want to see a doc
God can help you to overcome this, yes. But you should be aware that God often chooses to help us indirectly through people around us - including doctors - rather than directly. So God can help you if you let Him - but you have to let Him help you in the way that He wants to and not expect Him to do everything exactly the way you want.
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silentpoet
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I know you are worried about what your family will think. I could care less. I care that you get the help you need. The bible tells us not to be worried about the opinion of our fellow man. And do not let this stumbling block keep you from getting the help you need.
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Hi JJJ , and all ,
I recommend Dr. Jesus ,
What he can't cure us of , he'll kill us for !
Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him... <-----> Job 13:15
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. <-----> Romans 8:28
Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ . <-----> Ephesians 5:20
First of all , stop dreading your condition and thank God for it !
Trusting that , in God's great and wondrous plan , this thing is designed to work for your good !
There's something lacking in your spiritual walk with Christ .
This persistent paranoia is there to motivate you to search and seek and pray and fast , and study and meditate on the Word , until your lacking is abolished .
Many people are seriously lacking spiritually , and some have these kinds of pronounced indicators , that something is truly wrong .
Those who lack such indicators , or who succeed in nullifying them , while their spiritual impoverishment continues , are the worst off - not those of us who have undeniable evidence of some crucial spiritual need , and are thereby compelled to diligently seek the Lord's remedy .
Our faith must be strenthened . Specifically our faith in God's love , as was demonstrated through Christ , especially the blood of Jesus being shed for you and me , and every other sinful human being who ever lived , or is living , or will live .
So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. <-----> Romans 10:17
Immerse yourself into the Word of God , I strongly recommend The Authorized King James Version ; Strong's Exhaustive Concordance - with Hebrew and Greek Dictionaries ; and a comprehensive English Dictionary .
( These can be found online ) But a copy on paper has advantages . [ Simple and independent ] .
Every time you have trouble sleeping , use that time to prayerfully study Scripture . The more trouble you have sleeping , the better you'll Know first hand what The Holy Bible says . This will turn a negative into a positive . At which point , if Satan is behind your paranoia ( which he most likely is ) he'll have to change his stategy against you , if the Word in you doesn't drive him into the desert places first .
Once , when the same type of thing was happening to me , I prayed for The Lord's help , and suddenly , it dawned on me , crystal clear , that if " it " , ( what ever it was that was seeking to terrify me ) , was going to " get " me - it would have gotten me already , after the first hour or so . And therefore , I resigned myself to not worrying over something which could only suggest fear of danger , while posing no actual threat , other than to make one feel fear .
You see , the threat , that it's going to get me , was all it could get me with .
And once I understood that , it wasn't so fearful , and my spirit was given immunity to it's trickery .
Fear them not therefore: for there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; and hid, that shall not be known.
What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops.
And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father.
But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.
Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows. <-----> Matthew 10:26-31
Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom. <-----> Luke 12:32
What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things? <-----> Romans 8:31+32
According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue . <-----> 2nd Peter 1:3
Another time , when I was in dire need of The Lord's assistance , he spoke and said , " my help comes through my Word " , and I was convicted that I hadn't been studying as I should ... But after repenting of this apathy and only reading for a few minutes , out from the pages leapt a powerful healing influence , and a literal ongoing threat to my physical life was removed ; and my spiritual state was all the better for having gone through it , in such a way , as to seek and call upon Jesus , for my deliverance . Such experiences build up our relationship with our beloved Saviour .
Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees;
And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed. <-----> Hebrews 12:12+13
For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.<-----> Romans 10:13
For the kingdom of God is not in word, but in power. <-----> 1st Corinthians 4:20
Now the Lord of peace himself give you peace always by all means. <-----> 2nd Thessalonians 3:16
Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it. <-----> 1st Thessalonians 5:24
Remember to heed Christ's counsel , and it shall be well with your soul .
In Jesus Name .
Amen .
wm
I recommend Dr. Jesus ,
What he can't cure us of , he'll kill us for !
Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him... <-----> Job 13:15
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. <-----> Romans 8:28
Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ . <-----> Ephesians 5:20
First of all , stop dreading your condition and thank God for it !
Trusting that , in God's great and wondrous plan , this thing is designed to work for your good !
There's something lacking in your spiritual walk with Christ .
This persistent paranoia is there to motivate you to search and seek and pray and fast , and study and meditate on the Word , until your lacking is abolished .
Many people are seriously lacking spiritually , and some have these kinds of pronounced indicators , that something is truly wrong .
Those who lack such indicators , or who succeed in nullifying them , while their spiritual impoverishment continues , are the worst off - not those of us who have undeniable evidence of some crucial spiritual need , and are thereby compelled to diligently seek the Lord's remedy .
Our faith must be strenthened . Specifically our faith in God's love , as was demonstrated through Christ , especially the blood of Jesus being shed for you and me , and every other sinful human being who ever lived , or is living , or will live .
So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. <-----> Romans 10:17
Immerse yourself into the Word of God , I strongly recommend The Authorized King James Version ; Strong's Exhaustive Concordance - with Hebrew and Greek Dictionaries ; and a comprehensive English Dictionary .
( These can be found online ) But a copy on paper has advantages . [ Simple and independent ] .
Every time you have trouble sleeping , use that time to prayerfully study Scripture . The more trouble you have sleeping , the better you'll Know first hand what The Holy Bible says . This will turn a negative into a positive . At which point , if Satan is behind your paranoia ( which he most likely is ) he'll have to change his stategy against you , if the Word in you doesn't drive him into the desert places first .
Once , when the same type of thing was happening to me , I prayed for The Lord's help , and suddenly , it dawned on me , crystal clear , that if " it " , ( what ever it was that was seeking to terrify me ) , was going to " get " me - it would have gotten me already , after the first hour or so . And therefore , I resigned myself to not worrying over something which could only suggest fear of danger , while posing no actual threat , other than to make one feel fear .
You see , the threat , that it's going to get me , was all it could get me with .
And once I understood that , it wasn't so fearful , and my spirit was given immunity to it's trickery .
Fear them not therefore: for there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; and hid, that shall not be known.
What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops.
And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father.
But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.
Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows. <-----> Matthew 10:26-31
Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom. <-----> Luke 12:32
What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things? <-----> Romans 8:31+32
According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue . <-----> 2nd Peter 1:3
Another time , when I was in dire need of The Lord's assistance , he spoke and said , " my help comes through my Word " , and I was convicted that I hadn't been studying as I should ... But after repenting of this apathy and only reading for a few minutes , out from the pages leapt a powerful healing influence , and a literal ongoing threat to my physical life was removed ; and my spiritual state was all the better for having gone through it , in such a way , as to seek and call upon Jesus , for my deliverance . Such experiences build up our relationship with our beloved Saviour .
Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees;
And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed. <-----> Hebrews 12:12+13
For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.<-----> Romans 10:13
For the kingdom of God is not in word, but in power. <-----> 1st Corinthians 4:20
Now the Lord of peace himself give you peace always by all means. <-----> 2nd Thessalonians 3:16
Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it. <-----> 1st Thessalonians 5:24
Remember to heed Christ's counsel , and it shall be well with your soul .
In Jesus Name .
Amen .
wm
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Paranoia and fear are the worst feelings in the world to have I know. I dont know if you have heard of the term False Evidence Appearing Real [FEAR] that is what paranoia is totally false.
If anything makes you paranoid I would ask you to question if it is valid and if is not test it, if others or places make you paranoid test them as well.
What I mean in testing is to face it is whatever you fear in doing this you will become stronger and the fear weaker, this is not easy but it will overcome it.
I think it would be good if you could get involved with some group work with others that may have the same problems as yourself that can be a great help, your doctor can maybe refer you to such a group.
But more importantly than all this is The Lord, peace I leave with you my peace I give to you. May the Lord fill your heart with Love and Peace for it is the best weapon to use against fear, The Lord knows you more than anyone, and has you under his wing.
I pray that the Lord will guide you and strengthen you and fill you heart and mind with good and happy thoughts.
If anything makes you paranoid I would ask you to question if it is valid and if is not test it, if others or places make you paranoid test them as well.
What I mean in testing is to face it is whatever you fear in doing this you will become stronger and the fear weaker, this is not easy but it will overcome it.
I think it would be good if you could get involved with some group work with others that may have the same problems as yourself that can be a great help, your doctor can maybe refer you to such a group.
But more importantly than all this is The Lord, peace I leave with you my peace I give to you. May the Lord fill your heart with Love and Peace for it is the best weapon to use against fear, The Lord knows you more than anyone, and has you under his wing.
I pray that the Lord will guide you and strengthen you and fill you heart and mind with good and happy thoughts.
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You might want to have your prolactin levels checked to assess for a pituitary condition. Some common symptoms are what you are describing. These can usually be easily fixed with medications.
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