The Burning Bush Devotional
Todays devotional was written by Dr. Walker Moore who is president of
AweStar Ministries in Tulsa,
Now We Run
For the Lord your God is bringing you into a good land, a land of brooks of
water, of fountains and springs, flowing forth in valleys and hills. -
Deuteronomy 8:7.
A grandfather was walking down the street when he noticed a small boy trying
to reach the doorbell on a house across the street. However, the boy was
very small and the doorbell was too high for him to reach. After watching
the boy's effort for some time, the grandfather stepped smartly across the
street, walked up behind the little fellow and, placing his hand kindly on
the child's shoulder, leaned over to give the doorbell a solid ring.
Crouching to the child's level, the grandfather smiled benevolently and
asked, "And now what, little man?" The boy replied, "Now we run!"
Oh, the dilemma of being a parent. It was not too long after I had my second
son that I began to seriously pray for the return of the Lord. I know that I
am probably the only parent in the world that feels that way, but some days
I want to resign from being a parent. Sometimes I feel like saying to my
wife, "Now we run!" The only thing that has saved our children from becoming
parentless is that my wife and I never had this thought on the same day.
It is every parent's desire that their children grow up and becomes
self-sufficient, able to stand on their own two feet. But there is something
that makes us feel good when they are dependent and turn to us for help. We
never want to feel that our child can live without us. One of the most
difficult choices of parenting is when we are standing in the middle of an
intersection called "help" or "do not help."
I believe there are two extremes to parenting: the "butterfly parents" and
the "sea turtle parents." The "butterfly parents," at the very first sign of
seeing their children struggle, run to help them and try to take the
struggle away from them. But in nature, if a fully developed butterfly is
removed from its cocoon without being allowed to break through, it will not
have enough strength to fly in the world. It gains its strength by fighting
its way out of the cocoon. In the same way, children who are not allowed to
make mistakes or struggle, grow up not knowing how to handle the
difficulties of life. Mom and Dad do everything for them. Our children's
struggles are not always bad, because at times God is trying to develop
strength through testing.
On the other hand is the "sea turtle" type of parenting. The sea turtle,
after laying its eggs on the beach, leaves them to hatch on their own. Some
parents leave their children to raise themselves without any help,
nurturing, direction or love. These children are treated with indifference
and usually become "sea turtle" parents themselves.
God has created human parenting hoping that we would seek His wisdom and
direction. When we as godly parents find these truths, we can adopt them and
look at each other and say. "Now we run." Then you are running in God's
direction.
Insight: Confidence in parenting comes from the word of God.
Prayer: Dear Father, teach me how to be a parent. Help me to seek your word
and it will be come a light and lamp to guide me in how to raise my
children. Through your word I will have the wisdom of Solomon. The patience
of Job and the tenacity of Paul in dealing with my children. Amen.
Copyright © 2004. Ed Wrather. Permission is given for use of the devotionals
on a non-profit basis with source credited. On June 8, 1998 the email
version of the Burning Bush Devotional was first sent.
Todays devotional was written by Dr. Walker Moore who is president of
AweStar Ministries in Tulsa,
Now We Run
For the Lord your God is bringing you into a good land, a land of brooks of
water, of fountains and springs, flowing forth in valleys and hills. -
Deuteronomy 8:7.
A grandfather was walking down the street when he noticed a small boy trying
to reach the doorbell on a house across the street. However, the boy was
very small and the doorbell was too high for him to reach. After watching
the boy's effort for some time, the grandfather stepped smartly across the
street, walked up behind the little fellow and, placing his hand kindly on
the child's shoulder, leaned over to give the doorbell a solid ring.
Crouching to the child's level, the grandfather smiled benevolently and
asked, "And now what, little man?" The boy replied, "Now we run!"
Oh, the dilemma of being a parent. It was not too long after I had my second
son that I began to seriously pray for the return of the Lord. I know that I
am probably the only parent in the world that feels that way, but some days
I want to resign from being a parent. Sometimes I feel like saying to my
wife, "Now we run!" The only thing that has saved our children from becoming
parentless is that my wife and I never had this thought on the same day.
It is every parent's desire that their children grow up and becomes
self-sufficient, able to stand on their own two feet. But there is something
that makes us feel good when they are dependent and turn to us for help. We
never want to feel that our child can live without us. One of the most
difficult choices of parenting is when we are standing in the middle of an
intersection called "help" or "do not help."
I believe there are two extremes to parenting: the "butterfly parents" and
the "sea turtle parents." The "butterfly parents," at the very first sign of
seeing their children struggle, run to help them and try to take the
struggle away from them. But in nature, if a fully developed butterfly is
removed from its cocoon without being allowed to break through, it will not
have enough strength to fly in the world. It gains its strength by fighting
its way out of the cocoon. In the same way, children who are not allowed to
make mistakes or struggle, grow up not knowing how to handle the
difficulties of life. Mom and Dad do everything for them. Our children's
struggles are not always bad, because at times God is trying to develop
strength through testing.
On the other hand is the "sea turtle" type of parenting. The sea turtle,
after laying its eggs on the beach, leaves them to hatch on their own. Some
parents leave their children to raise themselves without any help,
nurturing, direction or love. These children are treated with indifference
and usually become "sea turtle" parents themselves.
God has created human parenting hoping that we would seek His wisdom and
direction. When we as godly parents find these truths, we can adopt them and
look at each other and say. "Now we run." Then you are running in God's
direction.
Insight: Confidence in parenting comes from the word of God.
Prayer: Dear Father, teach me how to be a parent. Help me to seek your word
and it will be come a light and lamp to guide me in how to raise my
children. Through your word I will have the wisdom of Solomon. The patience
of Job and the tenacity of Paul in dealing with my children. Amen.
Copyright © 2004. Ed Wrather. Permission is given for use of the devotionals
on a non-profit basis with source credited. On June 8, 1998 the email
version of the Burning Bush Devotional was first sent.
