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ILoveYeshua

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> Well, then it doesn't sound like you should be feeling so sorry for yourself.


its statements like that, that I do not believe Jesus would not make.


> Finding a true friend like her is amazing

i agree.

> so cling to her

as if i had a choice. my heart feels bonded to her.

> first as a friend and then wait until she is ready and she'll let you know if it can be anything else later on.

she will always be my friend. even if we marry or not. when we're in our 40's we will still be friends.
 
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LilLamb219 said:
Well, then it doesn't sound like you should be feeling so sorry for yourself. Finding a true friend like her is amazing so cling to her, first as a friend and then wait until she is ready and she'll let you know if it can be anything else later on.

The best advice ever!
 
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Joh 19:26 When Jesus therefore saw his mother, and the disciple standing by, whom he loved, he saith unto his mother, Woman, behold thy son!
Joh 19:27 Then saith he to the disciple, Behold thy mother! And from that hour that disciple took her unto his own home.
 
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I'm saying this out of Christian love but I also think that you might have some other issues that you want to address before you think about getting into another affair. I think LiLamb has allreadyt hit on one and that is "self image" or "self worth". Depression can be a side effect of that.

Your lady friend might have picked up on that and made her indecisive.
 
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well, ya always take that chance when you expose yourself to a cruel world. what do they call that, brutal honesty? mmm, gotta love that brutal honesty ; ) sigh.

though i mean, i dont know what i expect. too much obviously. i never thought life would be this bad growing up though. i mean, its like a social torture chamber.
 
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and i mean, why not just let it all fly? just let it all vent out... everyone'll offer their advice, tell me to cheer up, tell me it aint so bad, tell me i shouldnt hurt, i've got it good.

meanwhile i see my dreams falling to the ground. my hopes crushed. my unborn children evaporate as so much mist. i feel that first kiss ripped away from my heart, away from my future. but i have it good i guess. i shouldnt complain so much.
 
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