Not sure if something is a sin

[babegirl111]

I'm not sure if anyone else deals with this but sometimes I will do stuff that I'm not really sure if its a sin and feel that if i dont ask for fogiveness for it that I'm commiting the unpardonable sin. Lately I have been worrying about the way that I dress. I am REALLY into fashion and lately I have been worrying that if I wear something that may be a little revealing that I am causing someone to stumble (guys) of course. I will say that I in no way dress like a tramp lol but I do wear dresses when I go out with friends that are sometimes form fitting. Im not big on showing my breast or anything but I like my dresses and clothing to fit nicely and I like wearing different things. I recently posted a really nice picture of myself on a photo sharing app on my phone of me in this really cute dress and close ups of my face to show my hair and make-up. I even showed my grandma the picture (shes pretty religious) and aked her did I look "hoochie" lol and she said no. I got a lot of feed back from my friends telling me I looked so pretty and they loved my dress but I ended up deleting it because I thought the dress was too tight and I in some way was causing some guy to stumble. I actually regretted deleting it because I really loved the picture but I am unsure if I am just obsessing. I know that we as women are supposed to dress modestly but Im not sure if everything I wear would be considered modest. Dresses, jeans, jumpsuits, rompers, lol I wear it all. I just like to look nice and like a women idk im confused

 

[OnlyBelieve]

It sounds like you just like to look good. I do to. I wear all the stuff you said, I'm a mother of 3 so, the thing I really try to cover is my chest, because I am forever bending down to pick up a toddler, or toy...It is important to feel good about yourself. If your dressing with integrity, and honesty I don't think you should have much to worry about.
God Bless you

 

[redblue22]

The last I knew, not asking forgiveness is not itself unforgivable. Just think, there are all sorts of sins we might never know of, but Jesus died for these too. I suspect you are asking forgiveness for things you don't even know if you feel are wrong. Is this kindof like ocd checking? I hope you can come to feel safe with how you dress. You sound like your heart is in the right place. It sounds like you really enjoy fashion, and that is a good thing. Sometimes I wish others knew more about how to dress too. Maybe that is something you could help some of the girls at church with or inspire by example. (smile) As for guys being tempted, well, with some guys you could wear a sack and they'd still struggle. Other guys could see sexy nightwear and suggestive poses and be quite fine without temptation.

 

[babegirl111]

Thanks Ladies you really helped me a lot. I really was in a state of confusion lol, and I will take both of your advice. God Bless ya