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I'm having some drama concerning another person, the non-threatening type of drama where you don't feel abused but do feel mistreated. And I have no one to talk to about it.
 
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I'm having some drama concerning another person, the non-threatening type of drama where you don't feel abused but do feel mistreated. And I have no one to talk to about it.

Go on, talk to us; what's happening?
 
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I had someone who I trusted as a friend and who led me in Christ, but I kind of feel like things have gotten weird with them. The problem is, I trusted them a bit too much I think, and now I will just have to pick myself up when I fall, rather than having someone else pick me up. I guess I will get used to it.
 
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I had someone who I trusted as a friend and who led me in Christ, but I kind of feel like things have gotten weird with them. The problem is, I trusted them a bit too much I think, and now I will just have to pick myself up when I fall, rather than having someone else pick me up. I guess I will get used to it.

Friendships can be delicate, and weird. And dynamics between people often shift. If the dynamic between you both feels uncomfortable or unhealthy, consider taking a step back from this friendship.
 
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I had someone who I trusted as a friend and who led me in Christ, but I kind of feel like things have gotten weird with them. The problem is, I trusted them a bit too much I think, and now I will just have to pick myself up when I fall, rather than having someone else pick me up. I guess I will get used to it.

Christ Jesus will pick you up, keep in prayer to Him.

As @Gracia said, consider taking a step back to heal, pray about it and see if it's God will in this circumstance.

Sometimes it helps to have distance to process and reflect on everything that has gone on, to allow God to grow you from the experiences you're going/gone through.

It doesn't mean to stop being friends, but just to take some time and be alone with the Lord.
 
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