Not easy

[Christian_Follower]

Marriage, not easy and many times painful....

Had to vent, maybe I'll be back in a few more months to get more hurt off my chest... Until then off to bed alone again

 

[little_miss_sunshine]

Venting helps indeed
Married can be a challenge, but there are many good things to it as well. Single life can be tougher.. So we sometimes choose the lesser evil lol

 

[Chinner.Upper]

Marriage is indeed challenging. Sometimes it seems all work and no fun. I think the challenge should be 20% instead of 80%.

 

[Dave-W]

Marriage is indeed challenging. Sometimes it seems all work and no fun. I think the challenge should be 20% instead of 80%.

Indeed. But if it is at 80%, then something needs fixing rather badly. How often should you think about how hungry you are? If you don’t eat it will be 100% of the time when it should be in the 10-20% range.

If you try to force yourself to only spend 20% when you need to fix something, it will only get worse. Find out what is wrong; work on fixing that, and then once it is fixed, you can back off to 20%.