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happy??1

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hello everyone, yes iam having the same problem.My child father is being very disrespectful towards me. the reason he said that he dislike me, is because i suppose have stalk him.which is very untrue.i dont have time to stalk anyone.he has called me out my name, he does not want to get alone with me at all.when he was hurt i was there for him. when he needed me, i was there.he told me that he does not give a damn about what iam going through. i dont understand why he is being so mean too me.i pray every day for god to touch his heart, soul and mind. i really did love this man but he wants me to hate him. why, i dont know.wht are my prayers not being answered? did i do something wrong?i just want to to get along, and maybe rekindle what we have lost.he used to love me.i am failing my classes, i just want to give up.stay in my bed. all i want was to be with my childs father.but now for some reason he is not even speaking to me. i feel hurt betrayed, and my heart will never trust a man again.i need god in my life, does he hear and see my pain.why do he want me to suffer?
 

RestoreTheRiver

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You are in my prayers. As difficult as it is, release your ex to the Lord. Trust God to do what is best for both of you, in His way, and in His time.
I also encourage you to find a godly pastor, or Christian counselor, for your own healing and growth.

Michael
 
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jesuslovesme54

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I agree with Michael. You have to realize this might not be the man that the Lord has for you. It's His will not ours. I'm praying for you and your baby's daddy. May the Lord's will be done. God bless
 
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Elshevia

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Dear Happy??1, I am so sorry that you are unhappy, but I have to agree with the two previous posts. give this young man up to God, and get on with your life, this may seem hard its not meant to be, you are hurting and want explainations, well God did not do this to you, your young man did it all by himself, just think about it, and discover the truth, about God. Elshevia.
 
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TrinityFrEak

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i know this may sound wierd but, maybe he feels like it's best for you guys to be seperated..i don't know about love otherthan God's love. But I did that to a boy...i made him hate me so he would get over and i could move on. and i sounds even worse for me to say, that if he is wanting you to stay away, he might not have really loved you like you think... and if you really love him, you know that it might be best to stayaway.

dear lord,
i pray for these people, and what they're relationship, that you would guide thme to make the right decisions, that the child would still have contact with it's father if parents don't come together. and i hope i haven't hurt happy??1's feelings in what i feel..and that you could put peace, love, and guidence over both houses.
in Jesus name,
amen
 
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chosenpath

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Abba Father,

I know it is not in your will for this young lady to suffer. I also know you see her confusion, pain, and tears. Help her please God to understand you will not let her down nor forsake her. I plead on her behalf the she behold your LOVE which exceeds
any other love. Through Jesus Christ you son. Amen!!!
 
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gloryseven

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Gods promise is never to leave or forsake us. He always keeps His promises.

I'm sorry you are suffering because of your bf, and his attitude.

I'm asking God to strengthen you and comfort you during this time
of need.

Jesus, hear us. Bless this young woman and her child. Bring healing
and hope to her broken heart. Amen.




Jesus is the way, the Truth and the Light.
 
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