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If i meet a girl, who is not a fully devout Christian, but is open to it, on the fecne about it, kind of beleives in it, beleives but doesnt practic,e doesnt take seriously, and many other ones people tend to be latel yu, what is the best way to handle it?
 

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dont date her. Dont waste ur time. If she is on the fence now, she could be on the fence later, or she could fall off. It doesnt mean u cant be friends, u could possibly be a good influence to her. But each of us needs to pick someone who is going to be able to help us out in our faith, not us have to worry about constantly building them up. Its a team ur forming, do u want team that gets halfway to the goal, or a team that makes it? The difference lies partly in who u choose to run the race with.
 
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Would you mind your future kids having the same beliefs that she has now or might have in the future?

Would you mind having the same beliefs that she has now or may have in the future when you are on your deathbed?

If you're ok with both then go for it, if not don't, but remember; if she's on the fence then she can fall over on either side.


(1 Kings 11:4) As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the LORD his God, as the heart of David his father had been.
 
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the same way you'd handle it if you met a Christian girl who doesn't agree with everything you have to say/believe in. either one you don't want to be with her in a relationship, or two, you would choose to for whatever reason to keep her.

it isn't that complicated. make a choice in what you want and stand by it. if you want a Christian girl only why would you be in that scenairo that you posted in your OP anyways?
 
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