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I have not seen that movie I will try to find it with Closed Captions as I am essentially deaf.

My first contact with Muslims was in 1961 When I was briefly stationed in Morocco. Remember that was only 16 years after WWll and the war was still fresh in the memories of the Moroccans and many of them had fought Rommel and his Afrika Korps. Actually traveling through out North Africa I found many Muslims that had fought the Nazis.

Being considered non-White by the Nazi's the Arab and Berber Muslims faced considerable torture if captured by the Nazis so many did fight to the death. They did engage in some of the most fierce battles of WWll.

I never met a Muslim who had any sympathy towards Hitler.
 
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Salaam Alaikum. I hope you are able to rent it at a store, sorry to hear about your hearing.

I definitely believe that many Muslims fought the Nazis, as did many Christians.. and many others who fought peacefully by doing things like hiding people, sabotaging vehicles, even blocking trains going to death camps.

I met only one Muslim who claimed to support Hitler, it was when I was in the West Bank. The guy blamed all Jews for the actions of the IDF and said some terrible and racist things. Most Palestinian Muslims and Christians did not share his attitude, even though, like him, they have suffered a lot.

In the city where I live, there are some South Sudanese Christians, whose people are refugees who have had to flee their homes because of the Sudanese Army. One of the guys can't stand Muslims or Arabs, he hates them. I suspect that he and the Palestinian man I met likely share similar reasons for their hate. May God free them from it, and may He bring justice to their peoples.
 
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I agree with most of what you have written except the part in bold.

The Armenians were targets of Ottoman massacres and discrimination and oppression long before the First World War. Look up the Hamidian Massacres.

The Armenians were an occupied people, not unlike the Native peoples in North America.

Some Armenians fought the Ottomans militarily, like some Native peoples did. It was defensive violence against occupiers, who responded by massacring tens of thousands (and in the case of Armenia, hundreds of thousands) of civilians, indiscriminately.
 
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Most of my Family is from Lithuania and are Lietuva Lipkas (Lithuanian/Polish Tatar of the Golden Horde)

My Grandparents (on my Mothers Side)came to the US in 1895. My Fathers side mostly came to the US prior to the Revolutionary war. He was a bizarre mixture of British, Scot, Lithuanian, Penobscot and a few unidentified species.

I was originally Christian for 45 years, then Atheist for 20 and returned to Islam at the age of 65, which ironically was the religion of my Tatar ancestors.(I only learned that within the past 5 years)

Less than 10% of the world's Muslims have any Arab heritage and not all Arabs are Muslim.

My wife is the one in the Family who is nearly 100% Native American. I am sort of adopted by the Lakotah. Currently trying to learn the Lakotah language, with my hearing loss it is proving to be a challenge.

We do try to stay active with Native American aide groups trying to Help Pine ridge Reservation and we are frequent visitors to Pine Ridge. Current goal is trying to get Propane for the older people on the rez. Many have no heat or electricity. Each year many of the elders die from exposure to the cold.

Side note my wife was one of the Children "Rescued" from the Northern Cheyenne reservation in the 1940s. I won't repeat the horrors she experienced from that. She does not blame Christianity for that, and does know it was the act of individuals not of a religion.
 
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The Armenians were targets of Ottoman massacres and discrimination and oppression long before the First World War. Look up the Hamidian Massacres.

I'm not saying there were not problems before this.

The Armenians were an occupied people, not unlike the Native peoples in North America.

Here is the problem. They lived in the same places as the Kurds who you also described as an occupied people. In fact Kurds played a large role in the Hamidian Massacre.

Nearly all of these problems are the outcome of spread of nationalism, which is in my mind the idol of the modern age.
 
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Wa Alaikum Salaam,

I find that in the Sudan and Darfur the hostilities are essentially racial not religion. Arab vs Black African.

I find racial hatred to be the most despicable of hatred as it is clearly forbidden by all 4 of the Abrahamic Faiths. all 4 Faiths teach we all have the same set of original parents. There are no races, like it or not we are all siblings from the same family.

Hatred is a very destructive emotion. While it may hurt the one hated, it always destroys the one who does the hating. If any emotion can separate a person from the human race that emotion is hatred. If left unchecked hatred eventually turns the one who hates into a mindless beast.
 
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I need to learn more about Quranic fondling I guess. Never heard of the term before.

I gave up using the Search engines to finding it. So I am doing a word by word search. It takes me 30 hours to read the Qur'an when I read it with Tajweed. I try to read one Juz a day and that takes an hour. My search should be complete by Jan 18.
 
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It wouldn't kill you to use google:

Narrated 'Aisha: The Prophet and I used to take a bath from a single pot while we were Junub. During the menses, he used to order me to put on an Izar (dress worn below the waist) and used to fondle me. (Sahih Bukhari 1:6:298)

Nowadays the practice is called "thighing" or "[FONT=&quot]Mufakhazat Alzigaar". [/FONT]
 
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That wasn't a definition. You were asked to give evidence of your claim of a special Quranicaly / Hadith mandated fondling that was somehow different and more heinous than normal fondling. That Hadith didn't provide direction for a specific type of fondling. It didn't even give details on the nature of the fondling other than describing the womens cloths at the time. It merely mentions him fondling his wife in a dress.

Heaven forbid someone fondle ( ie stroke or caress lovingly* ) their wife.

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fon·dle
ˈfändl/
verb
verb: fondle;
1.
stroke or caress lovingly or erotically.
 
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Wa Alaikum Salaam,

I find that in the Sudan and Darfur the hostilities are essentially racial not religion. Arab vs Black African.

Dear Woodrow,

It is more complicated than that. The so-called Arabs of the Sudan are just as dark as the so-called blacks and DNA studies don't demonstrate really any racial differences either. "Arab" is really a social category in the Sudan which denotes the amount of Arab culture one has supposedly assimilated.

The real problem in the Sudan has to do with land tenure and the environment. There are basically three groups of people in the Sudan.

The camel nomads who live in the Sahara desert
Farmers who lived in the south. (Where Christians and pagans mostly live)
Cattle nomads in the middle. That's where Darfur is.

When the British ruled the Sudan they assigned permanent titles to the land of farmers, but no land rights were given to the nomadic people. The continuing drought in the Sudan has forced camel nomads into the lands of cattle nomads who then began pushing on the settled peoples. In the 1990's the government attempted to assign lands to these nomadic peoples, but of course, that meant taking it away from someone else. This led to a brutal conflict with horrific consequences.

One of the best studies of this conflict is by Mahmood Mamdani and entitled *Saviors and Survivors: Darfur, Politics, and the War on Terror.* Mamdani also wrote very important book on the Rwanda massacres entitled *When Victims become Killers.* One of his books I often use in my own classes is
*Good Muslim, Bad Muslim: America, the Cold War, and the Roots of Terror.*

One point where I would disagree with Mamdani is that he seems to feel that Western intervention in these situations only makes things worse. But in my opinion "Never Again" has to mean "Never Again" whenever and wherever. That's a point Mamdani makes in his book *Good Muslim, Bad Muslim* and I think he should stick to it.

warmest, Susan
 
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I do not have an Arabic copy of Bukhari and am not certain what word is being translated as Fondling.

However, as this Book 6 refers to the menses looking through the English I find



The last sentence seems to indicate there is no actual sexual contact. I am not certain as to what is meant or how fondling should be understood, but it does not seem to mean a sexual act.

There are several definitions for fondling.

1.to handle or touch lovingly, affectionately, or tenderly; caress: to fondle a precious object; to fondle a child.

2. Obsolete. to treat with fond indulgence.

I believe the definition intended is:

1.to handle or touch lovingly, affectionately, or tenderly; caress:
 
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Muhammad never provided any definition of fondling, perhaps because he was to busy fondling an underage Aisha.

Look, another wonderful pearl from the religion you love:

islamic necrophilia (FIS fatwa : you can rape your dead wife ) - YouTube
 
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You are probably correct. I was just aware of the frequent dislike I seen Between Arabs and Africans when I lived in North Africa. Even though prejudice is prohibited in Islam, it does occur.
 
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Look, another wonderful pearl from the religion you love:

Making love to a corpse may be perverse, but it is not rape.

What this video shows is just how silly the 'ulama's fixation with legalism can sometimes be. Every act, no matter how trivial or vile has to fall into one of five categories: required, commended, neutral, reprehensible and prohibited. Since the issue of making love with a corpse never comes up in the Qur'an or the hadith it is categorized as neutral as long as it is with your spouse.

I don't think making love with a corpse ever comes up in the Bible either.
 
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Look, another wonderful pearl from the religion you love:

Giving up on defending your last critique so you move on to an unrelated one? Seems to happen each time someone pokes holes in your previous claims. Quick search Youtube for a video of a self professed Muslim saying something stupid.
 
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Giving up on defending your last critique so you move on to an unrelated one? Seems to happen each time someone pokes holes in your previous claims. Quick search Youtube for a video of a self professed Muslim saying something stupid.

What critique? The one about thighing children? Search for yourself. There are fatwas about the topic in the internet. I think I already posted them before and I won't do it again.
 
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