Newly Single!

I think the best thing for you now would be to take a little break. Depending on the seriousness of the situation, do you think having him over for Christmas would really be a great idea?

Wow honey, I am so sorry. I know how unexpected that was! I will be praying for you. Draw close to God in this difficult time.

thats really too bad, but i agree that you should probably just hang back for a little while to see what he's thinking

Ok I really gotta stop saying this but I agree with Blue Impulse.

Canadian Care Bear.... I have been meaning to say this to you but I guess because you and I haven't chatted too much the two of us I held back a bit.

I have read your posts about your relationship with your bf and after reading this I want to say to you : It's done, now you need to get your things and go.

Clearly this guy has no regard for your feelings if he is 'celebrating' the fact that he is single. For one, the fact that you know this piece of information means he is rubbing it in your face and two, he doesn't seem to care that this hurts you.

Also let me say this; this relationship was not a waste of time. On the contrary it is going to help you. Right now, you need to find out who YOU are on your own. You don't want to get too caught up in a relationship at your age because you will miss that opportunity that God gives us to learn who we are on our own before we settle down.

Use this experience you had to better choose your lifetime partner in the future. I don't know all that much about you, but what I do know is that you have a lot to offer whoever this man will be in your future. ( even if your husband turns out to be your ex after much change in maturity and spirituality then that is great but don't let it get back to BlueImpulse or she'll go crazy!! eeeek!)



I hope you take what Blue has to say to heart - she's a wise chica that one.

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