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i am very new to this and thought that maybe someone could give me some advice. i truly believe in god and right now i need some help. i am in a marriage that i feel is honestly going nowhere and am very unhappy i know what the bible says about husband and wife but what do you do when your at a loss. i have prayed and prayed for god to help my husband with his temper and negative attitude towards everything, and i also realize that it is in his time not mine but i am slowly losing faith that god even realizes that my husband needs help. did he just decide to forget him or has he somehow done something in his past to anger god so much that he is a forgotten one? i guess i am just hoping someone could give me some inspiration and hope. thank you
 

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you probably know, the only biblical justification of divorce is when adultry is committed. I havent married someone yet but i have heard so many awesome stories of people having problems in their marriage and then God fixing things and the marriage is as good as when they were newly weds. Just dont give up hope, keep pray, read you bible. God will reward you for you faith. Im sure your husband will truly appreciate you sticking by him when he comes to his senses and realizes how much he has hurt the marriage.
 
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esnyder said:
i am very new to this and thought that maybe someone could give me some advice. i truly believe in god and right now i need some help. i am in a marriage that i feel is honestly going nowhere and am very unhappy i know what the bible says about husband and wife but what do you do when your at a loss. i have prayed and prayed for god to help my husband with his temper and negative attitude towards everything, and i also realize that it is in his time not mine but i am slowly losing faith that god even realizes that my husband needs help. did he just decide to forget him or has he somehow done something in his past to anger god so much that he is a forgotten one? i guess i am just hoping someone could give me some inspiration and hope. thank you


500 blessings for you
 
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