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Hi Heron, Tim is busy working on his update that he calls, "A whole update of everything you are not supposed to talk about" lol. I would have to agree with eagle wings, careful what you wish for on the 100 questions part. The questions Tim has asked here are in the lower tier of his question tree. He is trying not to offend and like he said, to not be sent to general apologetics where Christians wouldn't be able to answer questions. When he gets to those top tier questions, I believe they would move them or ask him to leave the site altogether. He had sent eagle wings some of them mid-level questions.heron said:Were either of you able to post in the other sections?
It seems a dilemma, as some are closed if you don't belong to that group (e.g., I can't post in Catholic threads). If so, you have been pushed even further into the all-or-nothing agenda.
Either of you, feel free to PM me with 100 questions.
P.S., Tim, the one-dimensional joke referred to the crisis at hand, not to you. I think I worded that poorly.
My biggest problem so far has been the feeling of being baited away from my original question.
I'm trying to keep an open mind and be open to advice even though I think many people here need advice as well.
It has become pretty frustrating when I can post a thread and can almost reply for 1/4 of the people on this site to my own thread because I already know what that 1/4 will say. There seems to be a superioroity complex by some on here. The complex that says, "You don't believe like me, therefore you are stupid and I can talk down to you".
It's like we need to put a definition up for the word, "help". You ask for help but instead you get what your fate will be if you don't accept what they are saying. That is not help.
Then we will finish that with the word, "Christ" and they will see how, "help" and "respect" were two things that Jesus was known for.
Thanks for your posts,
Here is where I get in trouble. Littlelion, I think that when we get answers like this one that twistedsketch gave you it is because we thought more than they can understand. It's not that they are not intelligent enough to think about it, just not willing to think that someone couldn't possibly not know God.
I really have around 100 or so questions that I would like to ask on here,
We are stuck, we ask for help, we get told our fate. Some kind of scare tactic. Not realizing that if someone is having trouble believing in God or the Bible that they wouldn't have a reason to be afraid. Just keep trying, there are a lot of people on here that are helpful.
Were either of you able to post in the other sections?
It seems a dilemma, as some are closed if you don't belong to that group (e.g., I can't post in Catholic threads). If so, you have been pushed even further into the all-or-nothing agenda.
Either of you, feel free to PM me with 100 questions.
I'm still working on my response to your last PM! (Careful what you ask for heron!!!) You have a very valid point with your OP and unfortunately alot of Christians don't realize that one of the biggest turnoffs to non-believers (for lack of a better word) is "Christianese." Another major turnoff is constantly having God shoved down their throat, in fact my sister-in-law and I were just talking about this the other day. I have always strongly believed that my actions will witness to a person stronger then anything I say. People realize that we are different just by the way we respond to our everyday situations.
As long as the discussion is conducted respectfully, I've always welcomed and enjoyed these types of questions.
As far as trying to explain what I believe in a way that LittleLion and others could understand it...I'm not sure how successful I'd be at that.
I try to stick to "layman's" terms and explain the scriptures that I use
But it's just as hard for me to comprehend the belief of no God or that possibly the Bible is fallible as it is for others to comprehend my belief in God and the Bible as infallible.
When he gets to those top tier questions, I believe they would move them or ask him to leave the site altogether.
LittleLion said:I dare say you are relativizing when you shouldn't.
If you are talking about Christianity -- and you are talking about it with the authority of a believer -- then talk about it in full.
Say "Jesus" and "God" whenever you need to. Don't try to make Christianity sound more palatable to the ears of a non-Christian. If you do so, they will get a very watered-down version of Christianity -- and this is not what you want or aim for.
If you do try to make Christanity sound more palatable to the ears of a non-Christian, then you need to ask yourself why it is you are doing so. Whom are you trying to please? Certainly not God -- God wants you to be clear about your beliefs. The non-Christian? Why would you want to please the non-Christian by relativizing the very thing that you want him to believe?
Eventually yourself, because you feel threatened by the presence of a non-Christian?
LittleLion said:Maybe, probably, my words sound critical, even offensive to you. But do think about them; and think about luke-warm believers. And about *loving* your *enemies*.
For there are enemies, you have enemies -- non-Christians: He that is not with me, is against me.
LittleLion said:Maybe the thing is that you can't explain it to us, that nobody can?
We are hard-hearted, according to you. And I just wish Christians had the guts to call us so.
Call us hard-hearted, and then love us. If you can.
Asilentopinion said:Hi Heron, Tim is busy working on his update that he calls, "A whole update of everything you are not supposed to talk about" lol. I would have to agree with eagle wings, careful what you wish for on the 100 questions part. The questions Tim has asked here are in the lower tier of his question tree. He is trying not to offend and like he said, to not be sent to general apologetics where Christians wouldn't be able to answer questions. When he gets to those top tier questions, I believe they would move them or ask him to leave the site altogether. He had sent eagle wings some of them mid-level questions.
heron said:"What is the point of asking"
Actually, so far in each of TruthInFiction's threads, his questions have not been answered at all. The entire time was spent on others antagonizing him.
Heron,heron said:Littlelion and Eagle_wings,They see the possibilities and how well he could help others but feel he is wasting it.
Ha! 100 questions, yeah, don't send them in 100 PM's. Who said I'd answer them well? Just an offer. I noticed that a lot of time gets spent just recovering from harsh posts, then the questions still sit unanswered.
Hey, Silentopinion!
That's probably true. If y'all (my lame attempt to connect with southern thinkers) look at the true meaning of discipleship, it is a training process where the faith becomes a part of you and you build in your confidence of using the tools to heal, defend, repair, care, teach, and not give in to natural attacks (a mix of Mark 16, John 21, Matthew 28).
We Christians often generalize about what Jesus' teachings were, that we were to continue spreading. Many teachings were to defend the oppressed, to sift through religiosity to the heart of the laws, to allow yourself to be one with God, to allow yourself the authority to carry out the miracles Jesus did (a controversial one) and to love each other. Jesus had a sharp logic that upset a lot of religious people. Yes, it's about his diety and salvation plan, but about so much more.
As I see it, Tim has already taken on a lot of the discipleship process over the years, and is pastoring a large group of people through his sites, his posts, his band life, and every part of his life. He might not have all of the message down pat, or agreement with the precepts, but he certainly has the heart of the message and the life.
This will shake a lot of Christian readers to the core! Please don't get off on a tangent here. But I do not see his life or approach as lukewarm at all. I see it as always learning, not having settled, not having enough evidence to defend God's ways.
TheTruthinFiction said:Eagle Wings, I hope those questions are not taking up lots of your time. One thing I try to do with those questions is make Christians think about the validity of words that have been translated many times. I was very careful in my wording of that so not to start a debate, because that is not what I am looking for from anyone. In showing these questions, it won't make a Christian stop believing, it will make them think more, something I honestly don't think Christians do enough of when it comes to their beliefs. Also I get honest answers, opinions, which help me look at the questions a little differently on my side of it. So both sides can learn from it.
Thanks Eagle Wings,
Tim
heron said:Too many crunches?
So sad. Why would they want to participate in a forum if they don't want to converse? I consider Apologetics the lion's den, or the colosseum of the forum.
Well yeah but smarter doesn't mean more likely to survive.
We've indentified with the movies, where we are certain we would be as smart. (I think of Will Smith, trying to outrun an alien that hops off a building.) Smarter doesn't work when you're sleeping in a dark, open hut or cave during nocturnal hunting hours or the middle of winter. Smarter works when you figure out fires, blockades, and buckets to hold liquid. Smarter doesn't work when you're trying to survive on the forum. Crunch.
Enlightenment
I was thinking this afternoon about the Buddha search for enlightenment. What did he think it was? What did others search for? What do we consider enlightenment?
heron said:
I seek, and maybe find too easily, and can live somewhat ungratefully. I find a very solid core in me from standing in God's existence, and everything gradually grows to make more sense surrounding that.
heron said:
(Visitors, please don't comment on my use of the cold term
"belief system." It is used in comparison with Buddhism and others.)
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