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New here....seeking counsel

Sep 3, 2018
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COLORADO SPRI
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Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
I am in my second marriage. We have been together 12 years now, married 11 and a half. We have had a very rough season for the last three years. I recently found he had a secret phone in which he was on dating sites, some not so very nice. We talked, and I have access to the phone, but he won't give it up (the phone). Since I found the phone about a month ago, I have seen around 6 email accounts that he has and signs in and out of. I have prayed for clarity for many years. It seems when we are together, I lose or chose to lose my walk with God. When there is trouble, I have daily worship and study. I'm not really sure what I should be doing or thinking at this point. It would be very nice to hear of others who have walked through this valley, that I may obtain some sort of guidance.