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Need some prayers and advice...

cbudc

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My wife and I are currently seperated. She's back home in the states while I'm here in the Azores. We've been married almost a year and it has been great. She went home in August and things changed in about 2 weeks. I guess she saw the single life again?? Anyhow, she came back here for a month and we tried to make it better but she left again. We have no reason to get divorced. I treat her very well and she does treat me well. We've had a great marriage and now she's telling me that she loves me more like a best friend and not like a spouse should. She's a strong Christian as am I. This whole experience has brought me even closer to the Lord. I"m trying to better myself out of the experience as well. I don't think she knows what she wants. I need a lot of prayers for her. I think she may have feelings for another guy. I know she loves me though and she tells me. I"m just not sure what to do. I prayed and told God that I would stick this out and have paitence with this. I hope what I'm doing is right.