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I am dating long distance again, this time it is different! The guy came down to meet me, we had an roadtrip together and with a one of my friends. It was for about 5 days, it was a blast, we didnt get tired of each other, and we got along well, we hardly show any intimacy though like we didnt even hold hands, we hugged at the end of the trip and thats it. After the trip it got me thinking, I felt comfortable with him , and I feel like we can be good friends and possibly further as a couple. I told him how I felt, he felt the same, like mutual, like we want to see if we could be official. So I decided to go visit him, so in about 2 weeks, I am going to see him again. Altogether he seems like a great christian guy, but I still want to be wise about this, I don't know 100 percent know him, so I need prayer about direction and discernment for the both of us. I dont know what his relationship with God is like and such, I do feel like he has the fruit of the spirit though, I just need more clarification. Please pray to bless our relationship even if we stay friends or if we do become a couple Thank you! If you have any advice about relationships, I would love to hear I am almost 30 years old.. only dated a few times and havent had a boyfriend yet...
 

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Did you read the bible together or pray together during your five days of road trip?

Having a conversation about God's word with a potential partner is revealing toward how mature one another is in their belief in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. In addition to reading scriptures related to God's plan for man and woman in holy matrimony, prayer is the other best advice (pray together).

I know a couple who developed a very strong relationship long distance before they were married and it was a very successful marriage with Christ at the center.

Praying for you and God bless you. Amen.
 
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I will pray for you and your dear. I wish you both happiness and will pray that you both find each other precious and praise the Lord. But before that, ask Jesus for guidance and if your course is right in His eyes. Have patience and He will answer you. God bless you sister in Jesus name. Amen.
 
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