My single chaste life

[caitlincares]

I am nearly 40 and still a virgin.

In college there were a couple of guys I really liked but studies came first.
One did try to put the moves on me but when I said NO he respected me.
One of the other guys died a virgin in his late 20's of meningitis.
And the other guy is one of my best friends to this day and he is still a virgin as well.
We can talk about anything!!!

I mention the college years because they are probably when people have the most frustration when everyone around them is doing stuff. I did not even date much. Usually it was church group events.

I think back to my upbringing.
I did not have sisters to talk about BOYS.
And my family did not really push me to date.

I am just here to say it is possible to stay chaste.
I did a lot of reading about the meaning of friendship and love.

I just wanted to encourage anyone who wants to remain a virgin it is do-able.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

You're you and that's cool.

Marriage is awesome.

Don't be too scared to enjoy your wedding night. If you haven't ever done anything...get used to each other first.
Hot tubs and low light are a nice way to...cast off inhibitions with minimal embarassment/nervousness.

 

[jenptcfan]

caitlin, it's great that you've been able to be strong in that area of your life. I know that God will honor your wait with many blessings in your marriage.

 

[CharlotteChurchFan]

Im proud of you! thats really good that you are staying a virgin till your married

 

[Sketcher]

Wow, that's cool!

 

[Bks Finest]

my hats off to you
in this day and age
that is a great thing

 

[Echoes Peak]

You are so awesome....and a wonderful, role model. God Bless

 

[jay_swift]

I hope I'm never in your position, becuase I know if I never get married I'll still be a virgin. Sex is something I want to experience before I get *too* old but at the same time I would never do it sinfully, and I woulnd't get married JUST so I can have sex. So looks like we are in the same boat, I'm just half your age ;-). Godspeed!

 

[Phrasedefina]

WHOA! That is a task indeed. Congratulations on accomplishing this. I would have to say , I have never heard anything like this before. Even in my local Church communities.

 

[TinaW]

Congratulations from me too.

That gives me hope that there are still guys out there who are willing to wait until the wedding night. I'm not a virgin, I was married before. But if I ever fall in love again I want to wait for the wedding night too. I always wondered if I would find a guy who would wait that long.

 

[2scoops]

I am a 27 year old male virgin. I think you waiting till your married is awsome. God truly will bless you for that. I think I had a couple of relationships where this bothered the female, that I wanted to wait, though it was not said. So you ladies wait, do not get pressured from the guy and do not fall for that line, we are going to get married so we might as well do it. Wait there are guys out there that will appreciate it, I am one of them.

 

[Breetai]

And the other guy is one of my best friends to this day and he is still a virgin as well.
We can talk about anything!!!

Maybe you guys should hook up.