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Okay... So...

Lately I've been feeling like guys have been raining down on my pc. Ouch.. that picture might look painful, but not as good as it seems.

One day out of the blue I get a message on my FACEBOOK. "Hey I stumbled across your page while looking for an old classmate and I just want to say you have a wonderful smile...." And that's how that started. He is a 42 year old man from my area that seems to be interested, but he is not christian... sooo... (Uncheck, but put a ? mark on it) He is much older then me, But he doesn't look his age. He looks like he's 34. The fact that he's catholic and I'm pentecostal will be one craziness. I don't believe in going out with someone who is 13 years older then me and on top of it...He's not within my beliefs... Soo Ergooo... My ROTTEN DARN luck. (But despite that fact he seems very respectful and hasn't shown any form of disrespect at all as of yet.) I was extremely blunt with him about everything including my weight, because I don't want to play no cat and mouse games with a guy that is expecting some 120 or 150 lbs girl, which i'm definately not) But he didn't dismiss me so he has me curious.

Then there is 20 year old from Cali who seems very interested, but then...he seems to fall off the face of the email world for a few days soo... I'm just like.... Hmm. No time to play games soo... next... He likes chubby chicks. He said he was christian, but...his fruits...are not showing this to me. I'm just looking for direction and these two guys definately don't seem to be it. So why do I even bother... No clueee!! Just seeing where the tide takes me I guess, but...I'm more concerned about the 42 year old cause... I have this weird drawn feeling. I mean I haven't met him and he lives int he city, but at the same time I know that I'm not his type. It's a weird feeling that isn't bad, but just weird like there is something and I sense it but I can't pick it up. It's not a bad thing either. Weird. Anyway... Thanks for reading this RAMBLING REPORT. YOU GET A GOLD STAR!! lol I mean what you think?
 

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Okay well first off, the internet is a scary and dangerous place. Be on guard.
Second off, you don't believe that Catholics are Christian?

Hey Kev. I do beleive catholics are christians because they believe in Christ, but the only difference is that I do not worshop saints. There are a lot of difference between Catholics and Pentecostals. We believe in father son and holy ghost, but pentecostals believe even more so in the manifistation of the Holyspirit and the movement of his power, but the catholics might look at us like we just nuts. lol so that might not go well between me and the guy.
 
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Well the reason I asked is because I've dated/talked to girls from a few different denominations that I felt were out there... And really what I've found is that we were able to get along really well having Christ in common, even if the rest of our religious beliefs were off. I guess it depends on the personality, and how much importance both of you place on the tradition type stuff.

Also, I think we need to see pics of you to give us more info about what's going on! Pics, pics, pics!
 
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BOOO!!!! THAT'S ME! WELL... A skinnier version. Now i'm 50lbs heavier. Still. BOO!


 
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BOOO!!!! THAT'S ME! WELL... A skinnier version. Now i'm 50lbs heavier. Still. BOO!



Yay I finally can put a face to your name!!! Although you look like you are about to attack with that guitar in that pic so maybe I should be on guard a bit

But really, who knows with crazy internet people. Maybe they just saw a lot of what you write and realized you are awesome? Maybe they just like curvy women and wanted to see if they could hook up with you? Maybe they were just bored? Random internet craziness is random!
 
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STAND BACK KEV! yeah... I'm gonna just attack with my guitar. Where I live that is my right to bear arms. lol hahah. Well yes you are right and that is why I am just wondering about this. Yes I am very aware of the crazy net guys/girls who are out there, but then I also think and say the same way there is a crazy one there is one who is just like me. They can't all be crazy/evil like PENnPAPER. I mean come on' lol hahaha He is so gonna kill me. lol
 
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haha nice. And yeah it's true there are awesome people on the internet too... I mean just look at me

But I guess my point is, why go out on a limb and take a risk on a guy that you already have a feeling is pretty crazy, who is someone you haven't actually met and only have had interaction with online? For me, if I was going to take a risk I would do it with somebody I have had at least some face time with, and even then I would keep it in a controlled public setting just in case.
 
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Who cares that they are respectful, nice whatever, do you want to give the missionary dating a try? Do you really want to pursue a relationship with someone that far apart in age? Or someone who doesn't walk his walk? Neither of them are really a good fit for you.
 
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Thank You. very honest and straight forward. I do agree. It's crazy the people that some how fall into your lap. True true.
 
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I'd just put them all in the same category as Russian brides, offers for Viagra and enlargement pills, fake Rolexes, SEO consulting, and fortunes from Nigeria.

soooooooooooo... totally legit and trustworthy?
 
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Maybe she's not looking for Mr.Right, but "Mr.Right NOW".
 
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One day out of the blue I get a message on my FACEBOOK. "Hey I stumbled across your page while looking for an old classmate and I just want to say you have a wonderful smile...." And that's how that started.


Oh man, this is called Spam, when the message starts out with those words, lol. I used to get the same exact type email in my yahoo account, but it was from a very wanton looking stripper/pornstar female that wanted me to visit her webcam.
 
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