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My mom is racist...

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My mother, who is the most loving, most God devoted person I have ever met, is racist when it comes to Asians. It's weird, she's a hardcore jew(who is a Christian), and she doesn't hate Germans, but for some reason she doesn't like Asians. She distrusts them, she thinks they are all militaristic and dangerous. She actually thinks that there are no Chinese homeless people in the whole world, cause they are so proud that they would rather kill themselves then be homeless. What is her problem? What should I do?
 

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My mother and both my husband's parents are racist... it is a hard one to deal with, i know. We try to correct any racist assumptions, and just keep praying. If you know any Asians, it my be worth arranging some social situation where she has to spend time with them and get to know them - meeting real people from any group tends to break down stereotypes.
 
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My mum is the same only she hates the men not the women (not not towards asians lol since we are asian) she hates blacks or even Indians (even Philipino). As long as their skin is DARK. She doesn't know God though. It's quite sad as she makes me sick with her ideals and tries to push them onto me but I say NO! At one point I ALMOST turned as racist as her. But no way that's not me...I love everyone...everyone is deserving of love... how about that...my own mother..racist and sexist...can't take it anymore I just CAN'T STAND IT. I've been tormented over this for over a year n its hurting me more and more.
 
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