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my mind needs help. please pray

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i need to renew my mind but im having a hard time....

negative thoughts are all over my mind. ive bought post it and put bible verses on them and put it around my room. hopefully this works.

i also hv problem making every small thing a big deal. just right now i bought something that makes me feel pretty. when i got home, my mom and sis didnt compliment me. this made me feel bad. i began to feel horrible and anxious. how can i stop feeling soo bad over things like this?

it seems like all the positive thoughts are blocked but the negative ones are magnified. :( please pray. im trying to help myself.
 

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Well , for a start , in my opinion there's no need to learn a load of verses , sure remember a few , but there's nothing that says you have to learn the entire thing or anything!! A glimmer of true faith is more valuable than a showy offy ( not that I'm suggesting that's what your doing ) kind of thing , remember.

also , if you think you look good in something, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise
 
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When you feel bad. Pray. But when you pray tell God details. Ask him for even the little things. If you are feeling insecure ask him to help you to know that, YES, you are beautiful. Ask him to help you to KNOW that you have value in this life. God answers little prayers such as these. YOU HAVE VALUE and YOU ARE LOVED. :)
 
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I know how you feel. I have a similar problem, when I'm full of anxiety and worry. Just remember that worrying adds nothing to your life. It's unproductive and usually not healthy. Just try and rationalize your worries and ask yourself, "Is the thing I'm worried about really that bad?" Chances are your worries aren't based on anything but tricks our minds play on us.

God bless :)
 
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Print out this pic if you can and stick it on your wall..:)
"He shall give his angels charge over you to keep you safe" (Psalm 91:11)
arms-angelB_zps33689991.jpg~original
 
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I'm sorry your dealing with this. I deal with full blown negative thoughts all the time as well. Its like their not like direct thoughts that make me hate myself but more so thoughts that put fear and worry in me kind of like OCD I guess. Its making my mind a wreaking havoc. I pray that God heals your issue and that he may restore you to live a more abundant life! In Jesus' name. Amen.
 
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