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Well....I was born in a tiny town in Iowa called McGregor. Now there is no hospital there, now. OK, I'll not do the boring stuff :p .

I was baptized Catholic 10 days after I was born & actually raised in the Church until I was about 4. We did live in a small town, and when my parents divorced, my mom left the Church. We were raised in different churches throughout our childhood (had a sister & 2 brothers), but no real emphasis on going til I was a teen. We joined a Nazarene Church, and I loved it! I was very active in the youth, sang in the choir, and had noon prayer meetings. At 17, I married, and although I never quit praying, definately drifted away. 3 children later, and at 22, my marriage was over. I went back to school & became a nurse. I would send the kids to church, but worked almost around the clock, so wasn't often.

Admittedly, my whole life I have felt drawn to the Catholic Church. As most of my friends were protestant, I just couldn't go back, though.

Fast foreward to when the kids were teens & ready to leave home. I was very depressed, and started to go back to church. I went to a Nazarene Church, a non- denom, a Baptist, and while looking, married my now husband. (I had known him for about 4 years) He says I led him to church....we began going to a big Assembly of God Church. He became active, and I did, too. I completely rededicated my life, and my husband was saved. My husband was happy, but I had this nagging feeling that something was missing. I prayed, and prayed, but still felt God wanting something more of me.

We began going to Church at a much smaller AG much closer to our home. My husband was at home, he said. I was still restless. God wanted more of me, and I just could not figure out what.

Almost 3 years ago, I was diagnosed with stage 4 her2+++ breast cancer. Now that was a shock! I had no family history, no risk factors, and being the good nurse I was, never gave it much thought. My doc said the best he could do was hope for remissions....I went thru so many emotions! For the first year, I prayed & prayed, but now the need to do what God wanted of me was important. I talked to our pastor with the AG, I talked to 'healers' and felt something missing. MY church prayed over me, and honestly made me feel like If I was not healed, it was because I didn't have enough faith. When I started venturing on CF, I would sometimes just go in the Catholic Forum, just to look....knowing they were so wrong. Also, my doc is Catholic...... I decided to go to a Mass, and although I felt lost, I also felt a tug. That scared me! How could God be in the Catholic Church?? How could these people who chant, pray to Mary, and....know God????? Well, I asked questions, and started reading, and most of all....prayed. My husband took me to the Monastary outside of Atlanta, and I prayed. For the first time in a long time, I knew what God wanted. I went home and called my Parish Church, made an appointment, and talked....and talked....and talked. I read, I studied, I asked questions....and I started RCIA. As I learned the truth about the Church-I realized I had been Catholic all my life, but was going home. My daughter, Anita, also became Catholic, and now my youngest has been going to Mass on a regular basis, and I am praying she starts RCIA this next year. My youngest had no interest in church before.....

I am in remission, and have been since Aug 2004....when I started RCIA. I have accepted my cancer as a wake up call...A call to go home.
 

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Thank you for that wonderful testimony, I, too was raised in the Catholic church and strayed away from it for many years. I tried so many different churches but just never felt at home...I finally went back to a Catholic church and I feel very much at home again...God bless..:clap:
 
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AdJesumPerMariam said:
Well....I was born in a tiny town in Iowa called McGregor. Now there is no hospital there, now. OK, I'll not do the boring stuff :p .

I was baptized Catholic 10 days after I was born & actually raised in the Church until I was about 4. We did live in a small town, and when my parents divorced, my mom left the Church. We were raised in different churches throughout our childhood (had a sister & 2 brothers), but no real emphasis on going til I was a teen. We joined a Nazarene Church, and I loved it! I was very active in the youth, sang in the choir, and had noon prayer meetings. At 17, I married, and although I never quit praying, definately drifted away. 3 children later, and at 22, my marriage was over. I went back to school & became a nurse. I would send the kids to church, but worked almost around the clock, so wasn't often.

Admittedly, my whole life I have felt drawn to the Catholic Church. As most of my friends were protestant, I just couldn't go back, though.

Fast foreward to when the kids were teens & ready to leave home. I was very depressed, and started to go back to church. I went to a Nazarene Church, a non- denom, a Baptist, and while looking, married my now husband. (I had known him for about 4 years) He says I led him to church....we began going to a big Assembly of God Church. He became active, and I did, too. I completely rededicated my life, and my husband was saved. My husband was happy, but I had this nagging feeling that something was missing. I prayed, and prayed, but still felt God wanting something more of me.

We began going to Church at a much smaller AG much closer to our home. My husband was at home, he said. I was still restless. God wanted more of me, and I just could not figure out what.

Almost 3 years ago, I was diagnosed with stage 4 her2+++ breast cancer. Now that was a shock! I had no family history, no risk factors, and being the good nurse I was, never gave it much thought. My doc said the best he could do was hope for remissions....I went thru so many emotions! For the first year, I prayed & prayed, but now the need to do what God wanted of me was important. I talked to our pastor with the AG, I talked to 'healers' and felt something missing. MY church prayed over me, and honestly made me feel like If I was not healed, it was because I didn't have enough faith. When I started venturing on CF, I would sometimes just go in the Catholic Forum, just to look....knowing they were so wrong. Also, my doc is Catholic...... I decided to go to a Mass, and although I felt lost, I also felt a tug. That scared me! How could God be in the Catholic Church?? How could these people who chant, pray to Mary, and....know God????? Well, I asked questions, and started reading, and most of all....prayed. My husband took me to the Monastary outside of Atlanta, and I prayed. For the first time in a long time, I knew what God wanted. I went home and called my Parish Church, made an appointment, and talked....and talked....and talked. I read, I studied, I asked questions....and I started RCIA. As I learned the truth about the Church-I realized I had been Catholic all my life, but was going home. My daughter, Anita, also became Catholic, and now my youngest has been going to Mass on a regular basis, and I am praying she starts RCIA this next year. My youngest had no interest in church before.....

I am in remission, and have been since Aug 2004....when I started RCIA. I have accepted my cancer as a wake up call...A call to go home.

What a beautiful testimony. Thank you for sharing these words with us. I have felt the same all of my life as well. I grew up in a divorced home... attended an AG throughout my whole childhood and teenage years.... joined the choir too... involved in the youth ministry. Then I strayed and married and became Methodist ...and yet still searching... knowing something was truly missing, always wondering what more God wanted me to do... what ministry He was calling me to be a part of. Then for a time, I just gave up and strayed away, and then I became Lutheran and I loved being Lutheran. I loved how they honored and respected Mary and participated in more Sacraments than AG. But something was still missing... in my heart. I couldn't explain it.

Then my husband came home one day (who was agnostic at the time) and started talking to me about Catholicism. I told him to go away... and that Catholicism was all wrong and blah blah blah... but the more he explained Catholicism and had answers to my questions that I knew were correct... I suddenly realized and knew that something was going on inside of me.

When I had attended Mass with him for the first time (I did attend a couple of Masses with my mom when I was very little),
I knew that I had found home. I knew that God was calling me to him and I knew that I was Catholic all of my life, but I just didn't know it.

Your testimony brought tears to my eyes... and I don't know why, but they are good tears...

God bless,

Debbie
 
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Just a little update to my journey :) .

I am no longer in remission, but we are planning on getting me back in remission hopefully soon.

I have been home for over a year, I have watched 2 of my grandchildren take first communion this year. That was one of the happiest days of my life, to see the young follow the path God wants them to take.

I have learned to say the prayer "not my will but Thine" which is a very hard one for me....but it all belongs to Him. I have learned so much, and & still humbled by how much I don't know.
 
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